Need advice from an internet game expert

[viking22]

Ive always had a thing for Polish girls and discovered this polish dating website in the UK, where Im from. It has literally hundreds of good looking girls in their 20s. Way above the quality you usually find on dating websites. Im busy with work at the moment so giving online dating a go.

The problem with the site is threefold

a) The site seems to be targeted to Polish people and I don't want to come along as a creepy guy who collects Polish girls

b) Most of the girls have written their profiles in Polish so i cannot understand a word which makes it difficult to write relevant messages to them. Commenting on their appearance I found doesn't really work.

c) As most of the girls haven't subscribed they cannot reply to messages. I can leave my email but it means that first message has to persuade them to email a complete stranger.

As Ive got nothing to go on and the volume of girls on the site is incredible, I was looking for a simple cut-and-paste type message I can send to a hundred of girls in the hope some of them bite.

So far ive sent 20 or so emails along the lines of "Hey, your profile caught my eye. Have a read of mine and if you think there is potential email me at ..." But i only got a couple responses from the less attractive girls

Any ideas?

 

[Dante420]

Online dating needs it's own section.

 

[Mr CIDH]

If you wanna get reply from women on the internet ask questions about their profile text/clothes/whatever any which are not "your hot/pretty/i'm horny" related. Women love to talk about themselves. Makes jokes about it, tease them, make sure they cannot resist to reply. Sometimes beeing a bit annoying when teasing does the trick, women react on emotions, so if they are a lil pissed when NEED to reply "not true" or "why are you asking that". Just don't be a complete ass, make sure it's comes across as a joke.

Women that are spoiled with attention can't stand it if ONE guy is not sucking up their ass and lying on their feet, makes more impression than the 1000 guys who load her with compliments. You can bet on datingsite women get loads of attention even if they are ugly.

 

[Alphamale1821]

set up a web cam and show her you kock if your large your win but if not.....uh ohhhhh

 

[Allurre]

You need to rewrite your approach bro.

Don't worry about being non-polish, you're probably not the first, and won't be the last.

When approaching women online, the best things to say are "Hey, I thought you'd be an interesting individual to talk to. How's everything going for you lately?"

Keep it short and simple. Something non-intrusive, but mildly flattering like that will score you great results.

Try to get her e-mail or MSN contact... so you take a step closer to getting personal with her.

 

[Kal0051]

set up a web cam and show her you kock if your large your win but if not.....uh ohhhhh

lol, was talking to a girl I met online tonight and when she asked me to get on webcam I should have done this.

 

[COD]

MOST OF THOSE "SITES" ARE filled with DATE BAIT..........not actual profiles of women but ACTUALLY wriiten by men on the dating site themselves to ENTICE YOU to join.

U could translate the words by cutting & pasting them into a polish/english net translator..............BUT WHAT FOR............they pretty much say the same thing in any language.

*watch your inbox for an infuse of porn redirects and other spam. NEVER leave your email add with someone whom you have yet to converse with (email, text, IM's, phone,etc) Email harvestors will try to get your Identity or inject you with a virus.

Rule of thumb if the chics profile is super hot, almost too good to be true........it usually is some form or redirection date bait.

So much to say but about your approach..............U gotta chellenge them asd give 'em a reason to email you back. U might wanna first find a legitamate site with real live women who have joined.

 

[Connor99]

It's all bull****

The pics and profiles of the females are fake

They just want to seperate you from your money

 

[Kal0051]

just join one of the free dating/networking sites

 

[CaptainJ]

Online dating needs it's own section.

Yup, in the recycling bin

 

[HeartbreakKid]

In the bin recycling bin? Come on now its not all that bad...if you know how to use it.

I do believe thou that online dating is very easy to get addicted to, but it is a good SUPPLEMENT to anyones game. Being that you can be at work or at home and your own convinence and meet women. But we already know that.

As far as those girls on those specialty sites, like most on here said most of the unbelievably hot ones are spam, but there are a few diamonds in the rough but i wouldn't think that there are too many real hotties on there that are REAL.

The girls that you did, get to reply that were the less attractive ones, were probably the few real ones, or that is the class of the crop there, counting out all the fakes.

Ive heard people talk bad about www.plentyoffish.com or pof.com but Ive used this with great success, and Ive ran into 0% spam so far. There are a lot of average and below average women on there, but i will say for every 10 - 15 average ones there is about 1 or 2 hotties. That may not seem like alot but depending on were you live, there is always someone new joining and there is more hotties than you think. Best of all its free. Kinda like craigslist upgraded, with no spam, and more selection.

But like they all said the way to go is to be a challenge, DON'T say the exact same thing as every other guy.. The hot girls get way too many messages to read and if you come across with the same generic message then you wont even get the time of day.

By the second email back you should either try to close on an instant messenger or cell#. You just don't want to give her the vibe that you got all this time to be online emailing her back and forth. You want her to think you have more to your life than just this. So basically just try to move the process forward. And remember your the man, your the main event, your the prize. You have to keep that frame.