MaradonaOfSeduction
Don Juan
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Ok so here's my background:
I discovered the so called seduction community about a year ago. I've read tons of material, i've become extremely alpha and confident, corrected my body language and vastly improved with women (got my first **** buddy, on my way to get a second one). The problem is this was ALL social circle. Warm approaches.
I simply can't bring myself to do cold approaches, unless i sense there's an invitation to approach (she maintains eye contact or something like that). I've tried almost everything around, from NLP exercises to The Power of Now.
Despite all the progress i've made, i'm still somewhat shy when it comes to interacting socially. I've been trying to pull myself out of the confort zone lately, going out more, chatting with clerks at stores, people who i don't know, etc. Still i can't do cold approaches. I'm too much inside my own head. I tell myself that i live in a small town, so i can't afford to get rejected, that it's awkward to just go talk to her. Stuff like that. I need to break through this barrier.
Any advice, please?
I discovered the so called seduction community about a year ago. I've read tons of material, i've become extremely alpha and confident, corrected my body language and vastly improved with women (got my first **** buddy, on my way to get a second one). The problem is this was ALL social circle. Warm approaches.
I simply can't bring myself to do cold approaches, unless i sense there's an invitation to approach (she maintains eye contact or something like that). I've tried almost everything around, from NLP exercises to The Power of Now.
Despite all the progress i've made, i'm still somewhat shy when it comes to interacting socially. I've been trying to pull myself out of the confort zone lately, going out more, chatting with clerks at stores, people who i don't know, etc. Still i can't do cold approaches. I'm too much inside my own head. I tell myself that i live in a small town, so i can't afford to get rejected, that it's awkward to just go talk to her. Stuff like that. I need to break through this barrier.
Any advice, please?