terminator911
Master Don Juan
Hello fellow Don Juan members, I've been gone a while and decided to stop by to see how things are going around here... so please, all old timers say hello and newbies are welcome to do the same as well
Here are some general things that I've learned over the past years and would like to share for those of you interested or bored enough to read them...
1) Women are like cats, the less attention you give them the harder they will try to get it. Of course, there has to be some type of rapport before you can do this; she has to know who you are and be at least somewhat interested.
2) Don't give in... Women will test you, expect it, be prepared for it... They will ask all sorts of dumb questions that to us don't make any sense, but it makes all the sense in the world for them. When the situation comes up, smile, nod, whatever and don't say anything back, they will try harder but never give in. Don't answer stupid questions or those that make you uncomfortable.
3) The power of "NO"... This is a good one. When women ask something, reply with an indifferent "NO" (with half serious face) to confuse them a little, they are used to getting their way with guys and when they hear "NO" they will try harder to have you comply with whatever they want.
4) Make them work for your attention... don't be an @ss kisser. I find it funny how most guys will jump at every chance they have to talk to girls they already know; they'll spend hours talking and BSing about nothing until the poor woman has to find an excuse to get away from the loser. During all this time I'm just sitting back paying no attention to her whatsoever... I let her come to me and believe me it eventually happens (this is proven to be true at least 90% of the time).
5) Act totally indifferent... I've said it before and will repeat it just because it is sooooooo true. Act indifferent and don't act overexcited just because she comes your way or because you are having a conversation with her. They are used to having guys act nervous infront of them. If you act indifferent they have no idea whether or not you are interested and by doing this you will show your confidence by not being intimidated by her beauty.
6) Play "hard-to-get"... This one is so powerful. End conversations (in person of phone) dates, encounters, first. They are used to guys clinging to them trying to get l@id that this will be a fresh breath of air and will make you different in a good way. You will also bring in the "challenge" factor that women crave; they'll appreciate you more if they have to work hard for your time.
7) Don't rush into having sex. My personal opinion is that guys that are desperate trying to get l@id will most of the time come accross as desperate for a piece of tail. Again, act indifferent to their sex appeal and you will have them throwing themselves at you if you know how to wait for the right time. Also, avoid sex talk with women you have just met, most of the time they turn out to be c0ck teasers.
8) Have the proper mindset... Personally I am meditating right now and it has helped me tremendously. Go to http://www.fhu.com/audiolectures.html (Right hadn side) and listen to the meditation on the internet for free, it will really help you with confidence and to be an overall better person. I can't tell you what big of a difference it makes.
9) Don't take sh!t from women. Standing your ground and letting them know when they are out of line is a way of sending the message accross that their games and BS won't be tolerated by you... this is another test they use to see how far they can get before you say something or they can walk all over you and use you for a doormat.
10) DON'T GIVE GIFTS... I've seen so many guys giving gifts to women they barely met. This is very dumb as you have no obligation to do so and most of the time it will backfire on you because it freaks them out due to the fact that this is a sign that you are either trying to buy their "affection" or making up for something else that is missing in you (confidence, etc...). Nice guys are suckers for this one.
Fellas, this is it for now... Good to be back and hope to hear from some of you. Would be nice if some of you could inform me whether or not the good Anti-Dump has ever been back or if anyone knows about him.
Cheers,
Terminator
PS: Sorry to say I don't recognize any of you... most old-timers must be gone?
Here are some general things that I've learned over the past years and would like to share for those of you interested or bored enough to read them...
1) Women are like cats, the less attention you give them the harder they will try to get it. Of course, there has to be some type of rapport before you can do this; she has to know who you are and be at least somewhat interested.
2) Don't give in... Women will test you, expect it, be prepared for it... They will ask all sorts of dumb questions that to us don't make any sense, but it makes all the sense in the world for them. When the situation comes up, smile, nod, whatever and don't say anything back, they will try harder but never give in. Don't answer stupid questions or those that make you uncomfortable.
3) The power of "NO"... This is a good one. When women ask something, reply with an indifferent "NO" (with half serious face) to confuse them a little, they are used to getting their way with guys and when they hear "NO" they will try harder to have you comply with whatever they want.
4) Make them work for your attention... don't be an @ss kisser. I find it funny how most guys will jump at every chance they have to talk to girls they already know; they'll spend hours talking and BSing about nothing until the poor woman has to find an excuse to get away from the loser. During all this time I'm just sitting back paying no attention to her whatsoever... I let her come to me and believe me it eventually happens (this is proven to be true at least 90% of the time).
5) Act totally indifferent... I've said it before and will repeat it just because it is sooooooo true. Act indifferent and don't act overexcited just because she comes your way or because you are having a conversation with her. They are used to having guys act nervous infront of them. If you act indifferent they have no idea whether or not you are interested and by doing this you will show your confidence by not being intimidated by her beauty.
6) Play "hard-to-get"... This one is so powerful. End conversations (in person of phone) dates, encounters, first. They are used to guys clinging to them trying to get l@id that this will be a fresh breath of air and will make you different in a good way. You will also bring in the "challenge" factor that women crave; they'll appreciate you more if they have to work hard for your time.
7) Don't rush into having sex. My personal opinion is that guys that are desperate trying to get l@id will most of the time come accross as desperate for a piece of tail. Again, act indifferent to their sex appeal and you will have them throwing themselves at you if you know how to wait for the right time. Also, avoid sex talk with women you have just met, most of the time they turn out to be c0ck teasers.
8) Have the proper mindset... Personally I am meditating right now and it has helped me tremendously. Go to http://www.fhu.com/audiolectures.html (Right hadn side) and listen to the meditation on the internet for free, it will really help you with confidence and to be an overall better person. I can't tell you what big of a difference it makes.
9) Don't take sh!t from women. Standing your ground and letting them know when they are out of line is a way of sending the message accross that their games and BS won't be tolerated by you... this is another test they use to see how far they can get before you say something or they can walk all over you and use you for a doormat.
10) DON'T GIVE GIFTS... I've seen so many guys giving gifts to women they barely met. This is very dumb as you have no obligation to do so and most of the time it will backfire on you because it freaks them out due to the fact that this is a sign that you are either trying to buy their "affection" or making up for something else that is missing in you (confidence, etc...). Nice guys are suckers for this one.
Fellas, this is it for now... Good to be back and hope to hear from some of you. Would be nice if some of you could inform me whether or not the good Anti-Dump has ever been back or if anyone knows about him.
Cheers,
Terminator
PS: Sorry to say I don't recognize any of you... most old-timers must be gone?
