How I do direct:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1217989#post1217989
Text of my post from the link above:
OK, here's how I approach:
I'll see the HB 9/10 - I don't wait for eye contact, or any "IOI's" or any of that other stuff.
That is just used by some as an excuse not to approach.
Nor do I approach anything below a HB8
Nor do I approach 10 sets a night, because I don't need to.
Then, I'll take a few seconds to put myself in the proper state.
I will also observe her for a minute or two, if I have enough time, and I'll think about if she is the type of girl I want to meet and get to know based on her interactions with others and the way she behaves, not solely based on her looks.
If so, I then imagine how good she would look naked, underneath me squirming and squealing in sheer delight.
In my mind, that azz is already mine, and I'm going to go take what is rightfully mine, as I own that azz.
Doesn't matter if she's with 3 other HB's, or 3 meatheads who look like they could benchpress Australia. That is my HB That is my azz. It belongs to me.
I walk over to her, or more like stroll over to her, slowly and confidently with my head up, back straight with a smile on my face. Not a goofy type smile, but a warm, genuine sincere smile that creates comfort and trust. And I do this not because some PU guru says to, but because that's how I do it.
If her back is to me, I will gently place my hand on her shoulder and gently turn her toward me. If her shoulder is bare, I will make sure my hand is warm and warm it up first if I've been holding a cold adult beverage previously, so my first contact/impression with her won't be an icy cold touch.
Again, I gently yet
dominantly turn her toward me. Then, our eyes meet.
I gaze into her eyes, again with a smile that radiates genuine warmth, comfort and trust. I don't say a word - not yet. I let the sexual tension build, but just for a moment.
I then take her by the hand, or maybe take each of her hands in mine and hold them up a bit to about waist level.
Then, slowly and confidently, with proper tonality, I will open with something like: "You are...(slight pause, again to build sexual tension and to peak her curiousity and interest)...exceptionally beautiful...and I would like to take the time to get to know you" I will then slightly squeeze her hand(s) at this point.
Not to "anchor" or any of that NLP stuff, but to add emphasis to my words and actions.
Then, I don't say a thing. I let those profound words just hang in the air and sink in.
I do widen my smile just a tiny bit, all the while standing there confidently, with my head held high, my back straight, my chest slightly out, shoulders slightly back and feet apart.
Again, not because some "PUA" says to, but because that's the way I do it naturally, especially when I'm feeling bold and confident.
At this point, one of three things will usually happen:
1) She will become somewhat flustered, but her face will "light up" and her body language will also perk up, and she will introduce herself by first name, or sometimes, by first and last name which indicates that my genuine honesty and openness has created instant trust.
At this point, I will qualify her by asking her if she is the type of person I should get to know, and if so, why? Or a similar qualifier to let her know that she's not getting a free pass just because she's hot.
She still has to meet my standards.
2) She will say "oh my god" a few times and might even begin to tremble.
I have experienced this phenomena more than once.
Again, I will qualify her for the reasons stated above.
3) She will say that she is extremely flattered, and loves my direct, no BS approach, but she has a b/f. I have a method I created for that obstacle that is somewhat effective, but I'm not going to share it here as it is my own original work and I don't want people using it and having it make the rounds on all the PU forums and eventually making it's way to the upscale lounges that I frequent.
Sorry, but it is sheer genius if I may say so, and I'm not going to share it so please, don't PM me and ask for it. I will delete your PM without responding.
Again, I apologize, but this is something I created and it took me years to come up with it, field test it and perfect it, and I'm not going to have it being used by half the aspiring PUA's in San Francisco's upscale Marina District.
3a) She has a b/f, but is so impressed with my genuine, ballsy, honest and sincere approach, she will introduce me to her HB friend(s) if she is present, and she may even "wing" for me. Again, this has actually happened and more than once.
Also, notice when I open, I don't say anything like "excuse me, but..." or "I saw you and I thought I would come over here and..." or "Excuse me, I usually don't do this but..." or "I think you are beautiful..." or anything like that.
(Edit: Subtle difference between saying "I think you are beautiful" and saying "You are beautiful" - Saying "I think" sounds more like an opinion or that you are unsure, where as "You are beautiful" is making a statement)
Why don't I say those things? Because I don't need to use a disclaimer or a reason as to why I came over to talk to her, other than what I stated above.
And when approaching and opening in an honest, sincere, open manner, women will usually respond in kind. They will follow your lead if it is genuine and from the heart, and they will open up to you.
If she has the attitude that she can use or manipulate me because I was honest and complimented her, or if she gets a "princess" attitude, then she just DQ'd herself, as I want nothing to do with those type of girls, but they are few and far between in my experiences when you lead by a positive example like I described above.
If you open with a lie, such as an artificial time constraint, or another lie like using an opinion opener by asking her a question that you don't care about the answer, or faking disinterest, then guess what? You're going to get the same in return - lies, fakeness, manipulation, etc...
Do you think you have a better chance of creating Attraction, Interest, Rapport, Comfort, etc... when you base your first interactions with her on lies and manipulative tactics, or on genuine honesty, warmth and sincerity?
You make the call.
Now, if being honest, genuine, open and sincere is not your persona, not who you are, then you will come across as fake and disingenuous as women have a sixth sense when it comes to BS
So, there you have it. The doubters can come up with a million excuses why it doesn't work, and you know what?
It won't for them because they already have convinced themselves that it won't, and that will come across in their approach if they do try going direct.
A self fulfilling prophecy.
It has to be genuine, and it has to come from deep within and not from some PU ebook or Home Study Course.