Maybe not QUITE a stalker, but pretty close.....
I have a friend who started dating this guy about a month ago. Everything seemed ok at first, although I could sense that she wasn't really into him from the very beginning. She dated him for a few weeks, but he got really clingy and started sending her dirty texts all day long that made her uncomfortable, so she broke it off.
Before she broke up with him she asked my advice on how to do it and I told her "just make sure you do it soon and be 100% clear about it".
She is friends with another girl I know. She asked her the same question, and the other girl told her to TEXT him that she doesn't want to see him anymore. Not the right way to go about breaking it off, but with this guy I doubt it would have made any difference if she told him face to face.
So after she broke it off with him, the guy kept texting and calling her. She did pick up the phone one time and told the guy she just didn't feel that they were compatible. He tried to convince her otherwise. LOSER.
Now it's been a couple of weeks and the guy is STILL texting her a bunch of AFC sh!t. She just forwarded me his latest whiny, pitiful attempt to get her back.
She doesn't respond to his attempts to contact her anymore, but he still won't give up. She's getting a little freaked out and doesn't know what to do. Aside from ME sending him a message (which I really don't want to do) I don't know what to tell her. Any ideas?
I have a friend who started dating this guy about a month ago. Everything seemed ok at first, although I could sense that she wasn't really into him from the very beginning. She dated him for a few weeks, but he got really clingy and started sending her dirty texts all day long that made her uncomfortable, so she broke it off.
Before she broke up with him she asked my advice on how to do it and I told her "just make sure you do it soon and be 100% clear about it".
She is friends with another girl I know. She asked her the same question, and the other girl told her to TEXT him that she doesn't want to see him anymore. Not the right way to go about breaking it off, but with this guy I doubt it would have made any difference if she told him face to face.
So after she broke it off with him, the guy kept texting and calling her. She did pick up the phone one time and told the guy she just didn't feel that they were compatible. He tried to convince her otherwise. LOSER.
Now it's been a couple of weeks and the guy is STILL texting her a bunch of AFC sh!t. She just forwarded me his latest whiny, pitiful attempt to get her back.
She doesn't respond to his attempts to contact her anymore, but he still won't give up. She's getting a little freaked out and doesn't know what to do. Aside from ME sending him a message (which I really don't want to do) I don't know what to tell her. Any ideas?