My Conversation Tip: 'Nouning'

[poonologist]

this is an excellent post.its like conversational skills 101.i really like this because it pretty much sounds like an exact science

 

[silverwex]

Cheers man. Anyone wanna vote for this post?!

 

[Saine]

Good post.

 

[So pimp its scary]

I've been having some troubles with cold approaches recently, and this is exactly what I was looking for to clear that up... thanks dude.

 

[Intense]

Great post here. I think a lot of guys have been doing this all along and just didn't realize it. For others, it will be a great way to jump start their conversation skills.

I am
Intense )

 

[silverwex]

BUMP.

Djs should use this when theyre caught for something to say.

Was thinking about this tip and it actually happens naturally when the convo is flowing but we just dont realise it!

 

[silverwex]

Bump - esp. for AFC's...

 

[weehee]

wow.. this sound just like playing a RPG game.

 

[silverwex]

Bump!

 

[chim_chim]

bump

 

[SOLDIERM16]

bump this ish. you can literally go on forever... WOW!

 

[Dirtheart]

Bump again!

This is the same sort of technique I use for conversations and it never fails. I think Silverwex does an excellent job of describing how it's done.

Sure it might come out robotic or like an interrogation if you just keep asking question after question, but I think this is meant as a guide for keeping conversation flowing rather than a foundation of conversation.

When you pick out a noun, elaborate a little using your experience or what you know of it. Showing her that you can relate will lead her to believe that you have a lot of mutual interests and she'll actually start to enjoy talking to you and feel appreciated.

 

[Chris Dash]

I use to use this back in the day.
Just take the key words out and ask any random question about it. Works really good.

 

[silverwex]

bump for newbies

 

[killbill]

****in awesome. thank you that was very damn good. 5 stars for sure.

now girls will want to talk with me.

 

[Docs]

A very good post and added to the Tip Album. Conversation skills are key.

 

[silverwex]

Glad to be of assistance guys!

Now lets get nouning!!!

 

[BrotherAP]

For a great example of how to really use this tip, check out the 40-year-old virgin's flawless execution

Andy, the Virgin, is advised by a friend just to take what the girl says and ask the questions back. It goes as follows:

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HB: Can I help you?

Virgin: I don't know. Can you?

HB: Are you looking for something?

V: Is there something I should be looking for?

HB: [Laughs] We have a lot of books. So, maybe it depends on what you like.

V: What do you like?

HB: We have a great section of... do-it-yourself.

V: Do you like to...
"do it yourself"?

HB: Sometimes. I mean... if the mood strikes.

HB: How is the mood
striking you now?

HB: [laughing, tittering] What's your name?

V: What's your name?

HB: I'm Beth.

V: Andy

HB: Don't tell on me, okay, Andy?

V: I wont... Unless you want to be told on... Beth.

 

[Carnegie]

I need practice on converstions. This is an excellent tip!