why would you get angry? personally that doesnt work for me. instead i just lighten up a lil, take it easy and dont sweat it. dont get worked up or take it too seriously. you dont even have to get caught up in all those 'plenty of fish in the sea' prophecies either, though maybe itll help you. you really just have to find what works for you. whether its that, getting angry, doing it like i said, 3 second rule, or whatever other way you want. find something i guess.
but yeah, i usually dont premeditate, get myself ready, stuff like that. i just walk in, say hey hows it goin or something like that, without even thinking about the next word thats gonna come out of my mouth, and just go from there. the rest just flows. you kinda have to be a conversationalist though, if youre not, there might be a few awkward silences at first too, but hey, i dont take those seriously either. youll get better anyway. so go do it. approach with absolutely nothing in mind and dont think about the reaction and then just talk about the first thing that pops up once you get the ball rolling. at least you will have talked to her, instead of avoided her. works for me at least. good luck
oh, one more thing, it really doesnt take that much balls haha. at least for me. it only does if you keep thinking that way. just saying. some people say there isnt a man in the world that isnt afraid of approaching, dont believe it. even if its true (might be, i cant even lie to myself that i'm THAT confident) but still dont believe it. makes things worse, in my opinion
