pooparu
Senior Don Juan
Guys, I just had, yesterday, one of the most amazing days. And all of it relates to DJism. This isn't just gonna be a post of testimony or advice, but also questions, so just bear with me 
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I was going on a train ride and so I started reading part of the bible at home, and before I went to sleep I decided I was going to bring the bible with me on the train. I printed out pages in the morning (and unfortunately my printer died before I could print all of them). Anyway, I was reading it through, and it finally just changed me. Like literally I felt the change. Guys, trust me, its not about the techniques or the "seduction skills" at all. Its about showing off charm and being happy, and loving life. I was reading through so many parts of the bible (especially the traps and alot of BBB's posts), and it felt so much more natural then having to run up, go "Opener, neg, routine, DHV, story, isolate, routine, palm reading, IOI, kino test, kiss test, number close/jump to another venue". All that is way to much pressure and chaos in your mind, you don't need all that bullsh*t ni your head telling you when to say what things. And trust me guys, I know this for a fact. I had four pages of routines I used myself, and routines other guys had taught me when I was studying mystery heavily. I had alot of David Deangelos mindsets down (which are wonderful), but if your ACTIONS aren't congruent with your mindset, then people pick up on it instantly.
Now, for my story. First off, before I even get to the train, I get to the station. I was in a good mood (this morning, and for the next 21 days not only am I not going to masturbate (maybe this had something to do with it), but I also wake up and start laughing like someone else did in the bible (sorry man I don't have your name on me to give credit), it starts the day off ****ing amazingly, and it takes a few seconds of your time) and even though I was going to virginia and kind of upset, I still was smiling because like the Bible said, I don't need to worry about what's in the past or future, or what I don't have control over, I just need to worry about here and now. So I'm waiting for the train, and I see a girl smoking a cigarette, pretty hot, probably 8 - 8.5, anyway, some lady walks up to her and says something to her and she outs the cigarette. Now usually it would take me alot of thinking in my head to come up with the perfect opener and blah blah blah, I said f*ck it. So I turn to her with that same "I'm - on - top - of - the - world" smile and go, "Hey, did she just ask you to out your cigarette?" And bam, conversations going, she answers, "Yea, like it was really hurting her, it was done anyway" and I said something back like, "I guess her lungs just couldn't handle it." Anyway we chatted for a while and then I let her go. Now alot of you guys would be like why didn't you number close. Well one, I'm 16 and she was a lot older (I doubt she could tell though I think I look a bit older), but two, again, I have decided that I need to live and just have fun, If I get the number, great, if not, there's another 3,000,000,000 women out there. Anyway I get on the train, I'm smiling, saying hey to everyone (the story gets better) I pass and just all around being filled with that DJ light (I understand EXACTLY what BBB was talking about when he said that now). So anyway I decide, f*ck this, I'm going to have fun, I'm going to sit next to some girl that I think looks good and just get going, so I see some girl with her head down and a teddy bear (which is great cuz I mean some girl around 16 must have a reason for carrying a bear, so bam instant conversation) so I plop right down there and look around. I start reading a bit more of the bible (I think it was around this time I really started reading into the traps), and then we stop at another stop. From this point on, I felt like a DJ, I mean everyone loved me, read on to see.
A guy and his daughter (about my age) gets on, she's reading Harry potter (6th book), so automatically I had already planned to talk to her and just ask her if it was her first time through and stat up a convo, but instead I decided, "hey I need to charm her dad first anyway" and he ended up being one of the f*cking coolest people I've met. He was reading a magazine (and yes I'm going to meticulous detail I don't want to leave anything out because I hope I can help everyone) about the sites on the east coast. So I ask him, "Hey man, this is your first time going to VA?" and he responds "Nah first time on the east coast, we just were in jersey". Nice. HUGE conversation starts about him wanting to go to busch gardens, me telling him about it and king's dominion, which he thouht was just a water park so I told him more about it, then he was telling me that they were from hawaii and they had never been to the east coast. He was bringing his daughter (him and his wife were divorced) to see her uncle on her mother's side, but because they were so close they still were cool. He was just like a guy my age, he was telling me how he loved Kingda Ka and how he hopes to have a great time in Busch gardens, I was telling him about VA, how they would have a great time (not mentioning anything negative, even though I'm not like 100% fond of the state, I know alot of people are), telling them where they should go if they had the chance. We were swapping stories about being on the different coasts (i've never been off the east coast), he was telling me about cali (i wanna go to college there), all of this was just flowing, it was amazing. At this point I could feel the light growing stronger. I realized PEOPLE want to be talked to and have a good time, at least most people. So then me and him finish talking for a bit, then I turn and say htis baby girl and her mom. And she's palying with her and whatnot, so then I start having fun with the baby, making faces, everyones laughing seeing me have fun with the baby. Next the conductor comes, now I remembered that I don't want to be a seducer, I want to be a DJ, I want to make friends with everyone and have a great time. So conductor comes up, first thing I say is, "hey man, how's the day been so far" "Well good, at least alot better than yesterday" "Oh yea the maryland floods and everything, waht did you guys have to do?" And bam, some more social proof. At this point, everyoune within 2 or 3 chairs of me liked me and were just enjoying my company. Not because I was using "teh 1337 pick up lines" or because I was "negging" everyone, but because I was being sincere and having a great time. So I make friends with the conductor, we chat it up everytime he passes by, I'm still talking to my guy in front of me (from hawaii), making some jokes with the older ladies behind me, and then the girl wakes up. So I decide to toss this out there, "Hey, look like you had some dream" (she was moving alot). "OMG how did you know that?" And proceeds to tell me about her dream and all. She was a bit eccentric at first, but after I while I just said, "F*ck all this techniques and seduction things, I'm gonna talk, bust her balls when I want, and enjoy the converstaion". So I mean on a 6 hour train ride, you can talk about anything, and we talked alot. I'd say a little later on, I could tell she wanted me, I wasn't breaking eye contact, I was talking a bit slower than normal, being confident, making jokes, making fun of her (I even said to her once, you're either the coolest girl or the weirdest girl I've met, I'm trying to figure out which one, and set up a scale. EVerytime she would do something it would earn her points to the cool side or the weird side. I think I might actually keep this, it was a fun game messing with her) and having fun. I honestly think that within 2 or three hours, I could have taken her to the bathroom and banged her brains out, but this wasn't about that (at least not for now), I was having too much fun realizing that life is amazing and that being a DJ wasn't about alll those ridiculous techniques and skills. Not once do I remember thinking "Alright I need to DHV here". Because I wouldn't feel authentic. In the past I've used mystery's stuff and RJs, but even though I got "used" to it, I don't think it was "integrated" and part of me. It made me feel not deceitful, but too technical. Again I was reading the traps and what really struck a cord was the, "Don't worry about tommorow or the past. Don't ask where are when you are. You are right here, right now. Be glad that you're alive, and don't look at the world like its boring. Realize that everything you see, that exact pattern wil lnever happen again." (paraphrased). And he was right, I was noticing that even though a leaf may fall of the same tree in 1000 years, it is NEVER going to fall under the same wind, the same angle, etc, that I saw it fall at.
Guys listen, EVERYTHING YOU SEE IS MAKING HISTORY. WE ARE LITERALLY WATCHING HISTORY TAKE PLACE, and people just walk by their daily lives like its nothing. Do you realize that everytime I take a walk down new york, the same arrangement of people will never take those same exact steps? We need to LIVE guys, not EXIST, LIVE, ENJOY,LAUGH.
.I was going on a train ride and so I started reading part of the bible at home, and before I went to sleep I decided I was going to bring the bible with me on the train. I printed out pages in the morning (and unfortunately my printer died before I could print all of them). Anyway, I was reading it through, and it finally just changed me. Like literally I felt the change. Guys, trust me, its not about the techniques or the "seduction skills" at all. Its about showing off charm and being happy, and loving life. I was reading through so many parts of the bible (especially the traps and alot of BBB's posts), and it felt so much more natural then having to run up, go "Opener, neg, routine, DHV, story, isolate, routine, palm reading, IOI, kino test, kiss test, number close/jump to another venue". All that is way to much pressure and chaos in your mind, you don't need all that bullsh*t ni your head telling you when to say what things. And trust me guys, I know this for a fact. I had four pages of routines I used myself, and routines other guys had taught me when I was studying mystery heavily. I had alot of David Deangelos mindsets down (which are wonderful), but if your ACTIONS aren't congruent with your mindset, then people pick up on it instantly.
Now, for my story. First off, before I even get to the train, I get to the station. I was in a good mood (this morning, and for the next 21 days not only am I not going to masturbate (maybe this had something to do with it), but I also wake up and start laughing like someone else did in the bible (sorry man I don't have your name on me to give credit), it starts the day off ****ing amazingly, and it takes a few seconds of your time) and even though I was going to virginia and kind of upset, I still was smiling because like the Bible said, I don't need to worry about what's in the past or future, or what I don't have control over, I just need to worry about here and now. So I'm waiting for the train, and I see a girl smoking a cigarette, pretty hot, probably 8 - 8.5, anyway, some lady walks up to her and says something to her and she outs the cigarette. Now usually it would take me alot of thinking in my head to come up with the perfect opener and blah blah blah, I said f*ck it. So I turn to her with that same "I'm - on - top - of - the - world" smile and go, "Hey, did she just ask you to out your cigarette?" And bam, conversations going, she answers, "Yea, like it was really hurting her, it was done anyway" and I said something back like, "I guess her lungs just couldn't handle it." Anyway we chatted for a while and then I let her go. Now alot of you guys would be like why didn't you number close. Well one, I'm 16 and she was a lot older (I doubt she could tell though I think I look a bit older), but two, again, I have decided that I need to live and just have fun, If I get the number, great, if not, there's another 3,000,000,000 women out there. Anyway I get on the train, I'm smiling, saying hey to everyone (the story gets better) I pass and just all around being filled with that DJ light (I understand EXACTLY what BBB was talking about when he said that now). So anyway I decide, f*ck this, I'm going to have fun, I'm going to sit next to some girl that I think looks good and just get going, so I see some girl with her head down and a teddy bear (which is great cuz I mean some girl around 16 must have a reason for carrying a bear, so bam instant conversation) so I plop right down there and look around. I start reading a bit more of the bible (I think it was around this time I really started reading into the traps), and then we stop at another stop. From this point on, I felt like a DJ, I mean everyone loved me, read on to see.
A guy and his daughter (about my age) gets on, she's reading Harry potter (6th book), so automatically I had already planned to talk to her and just ask her if it was her first time through and stat up a convo, but instead I decided, "hey I need to charm her dad first anyway" and he ended up being one of the f*cking coolest people I've met. He was reading a magazine (and yes I'm going to meticulous detail I don't want to leave anything out because I hope I can help everyone) about the sites on the east coast. So I ask him, "Hey man, this is your first time going to VA?" and he responds "Nah first time on the east coast, we just were in jersey". Nice. HUGE conversation starts about him wanting to go to busch gardens, me telling him about it and king's dominion, which he thouht was just a water park so I told him more about it, then he was telling me that they were from hawaii and they had never been to the east coast. He was bringing his daughter (him and his wife were divorced) to see her uncle on her mother's side, but because they were so close they still were cool. He was just like a guy my age, he was telling me how he loved Kingda Ka and how he hopes to have a great time in Busch gardens, I was telling him about VA, how they would have a great time (not mentioning anything negative, even though I'm not like 100% fond of the state, I know alot of people are), telling them where they should go if they had the chance. We were swapping stories about being on the different coasts (i've never been off the east coast), he was telling me about cali (i wanna go to college there), all of this was just flowing, it was amazing. At this point I could feel the light growing stronger. I realized PEOPLE want to be talked to and have a good time, at least most people. So then me and him finish talking for a bit, then I turn and say htis baby girl and her mom. And she's palying with her and whatnot, so then I start having fun with the baby, making faces, everyones laughing seeing me have fun with the baby. Next the conductor comes, now I remembered that I don't want to be a seducer, I want to be a DJ, I want to make friends with everyone and have a great time. So conductor comes up, first thing I say is, "hey man, how's the day been so far" "Well good, at least alot better than yesterday" "Oh yea the maryland floods and everything, waht did you guys have to do?" And bam, some more social proof. At this point, everyoune within 2 or 3 chairs of me liked me and were just enjoying my company. Not because I was using "teh 1337 pick up lines" or because I was "negging" everyone, but because I was being sincere and having a great time. So I make friends with the conductor, we chat it up everytime he passes by, I'm still talking to my guy in front of me (from hawaii), making some jokes with the older ladies behind me, and then the girl wakes up. So I decide to toss this out there, "Hey, look like you had some dream" (she was moving alot). "OMG how did you know that?" And proceeds to tell me about her dream and all. She was a bit eccentric at first, but after I while I just said, "F*ck all this techniques and seduction things, I'm gonna talk, bust her balls when I want, and enjoy the converstaion". So I mean on a 6 hour train ride, you can talk about anything, and we talked alot. I'd say a little later on, I could tell she wanted me, I wasn't breaking eye contact, I was talking a bit slower than normal, being confident, making jokes, making fun of her (I even said to her once, you're either the coolest girl or the weirdest girl I've met, I'm trying to figure out which one, and set up a scale. EVerytime she would do something it would earn her points to the cool side or the weird side. I think I might actually keep this, it was a fun game messing with her) and having fun. I honestly think that within 2 or three hours, I could have taken her to the bathroom and banged her brains out, but this wasn't about that (at least not for now), I was having too much fun realizing that life is amazing and that being a DJ wasn't about alll those ridiculous techniques and skills. Not once do I remember thinking "Alright I need to DHV here". Because I wouldn't feel authentic. In the past I've used mystery's stuff and RJs, but even though I got "used" to it, I don't think it was "integrated" and part of me. It made me feel not deceitful, but too technical. Again I was reading the traps and what really struck a cord was the, "Don't worry about tommorow or the past. Don't ask where are when you are. You are right here, right now. Be glad that you're alive, and don't look at the world like its boring. Realize that everything you see, that exact pattern wil lnever happen again." (paraphrased). And he was right, I was noticing that even though a leaf may fall of the same tree in 1000 years, it is NEVER going to fall under the same wind, the same angle, etc, that I saw it fall at.
Guys listen, EVERYTHING YOU SEE IS MAKING HISTORY. WE ARE LITERALLY WATCHING HISTORY TAKE PLACE, and people just walk by their daily lives like its nothing. Do you realize that everytime I take a walk down new york, the same arrangement of people will never take those same exact steps? We need to LIVE guys, not EXIST, LIVE, ENJOY,LAUGH.
