Malcontent
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 15, 2014
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I agree with the "don't fvck your friend's girl" perspective. Bros first, man. Surely you knew this would complicate things.
I've had a friend's girl literally say "I want to suck your c0ck" when my friend stepped out of the room. Actually 2 of my friends' girls did this exact thing. Another time, my brother's wife was seductively telling me how she was going to be alone/lonely after I fvcked her friend the previous day. (My brother was at work.) Another friend's girl said "I want to make you feel good" and knelt down in front of me when my friend was taking a shower. In each of these cases, it blew my mind how these hoes are, although it was pretty exciting/ego-boosting to hear this sh1t. But none of the offers were worth complicating or losing a good friend, so I abstained. Choices: 1. Bust a nut on a skank's face one time 2. Lose a (great?) friend permanently. Hmmm.....
I know you've already done the deed and this doesn't help, but damn, you must've known this would be a problem before you even did it.
It seems fvcked to me to not tell him. Friends are people you can trust, right? IMO you violated trust. I think the unspoken bro code here is that this guy wouldn't have suspected you would bang a chick he was with, so the fvcking never should've happened. If you'd considered that before banging her, wouldn't be in this dilemma now. I understand the argument that she's a h0e and he's a chump and you did him a favor, but let's be honest here, the motivation is you did yourself a favor. And I don't think your buddy would consider it a favor and thank you for exposing her wh0rish ways.
Analogy: I'd be pissed if we were roommates and you drank my beer and ate my food without asking. It's just a matter of decency/respect. You ask if you can use someone else's sh1t, whether it's their car, bed, date, etc.
He'll find out eventually, I bet. Especially if he and she are big drinkers and spend more time together.
I don't think him being drunk just justifies what happened. What if you passed out drunk and I maxed your credit cards and said "Yeah, you dumb fvck. You were drunk. You couldn't keep your sh1t together. Moron."? Yeah, if I was a fvcking thug -- but your friend?
If being RP means being an opportunist in every situation, I guess I haven't taken the pill. Not interested in betraying those whom I care about or stepping on people's heads. Sometimes, you gotta sacrifice for the larger picture.
You'll do what you think is right in the end.
Side note: Bartenders aren't LTR material and your friend should know that. Bartender is on the stripper/escort spectrum.
I've had a friend's girl literally say "I want to suck your c0ck" when my friend stepped out of the room. Actually 2 of my friends' girls did this exact thing. Another time, my brother's wife was seductively telling me how she was going to be alone/lonely after I fvcked her friend the previous day. (My brother was at work.) Another friend's girl said "I want to make you feel good" and knelt down in front of me when my friend was taking a shower. In each of these cases, it blew my mind how these hoes are, although it was pretty exciting/ego-boosting to hear this sh1t. But none of the offers were worth complicating or losing a good friend, so I abstained. Choices: 1. Bust a nut on a skank's face one time 2. Lose a (great?) friend permanently. Hmmm.....
I know you've already done the deed and this doesn't help, but damn, you must've known this would be a problem before you even did it.
It seems fvcked to me to not tell him. Friends are people you can trust, right? IMO you violated trust. I think the unspoken bro code here is that this guy wouldn't have suspected you would bang a chick he was with, so the fvcking never should've happened. If you'd considered that before banging her, wouldn't be in this dilemma now. I understand the argument that she's a h0e and he's a chump and you did him a favor, but let's be honest here, the motivation is you did yourself a favor. And I don't think your buddy would consider it a favor and thank you for exposing her wh0rish ways.
Analogy: I'd be pissed if we were roommates and you drank my beer and ate my food without asking. It's just a matter of decency/respect. You ask if you can use someone else's sh1t, whether it's their car, bed, date, etc.
He'll find out eventually, I bet. Especially if he and she are big drinkers and spend more time together.
I don't think him being drunk just justifies what happened. What if you passed out drunk and I maxed your credit cards and said "Yeah, you dumb fvck. You were drunk. You couldn't keep your sh1t together. Moron."? Yeah, if I was a fvcking thug -- but your friend?
If being RP means being an opportunist in every situation, I guess I haven't taken the pill. Not interested in betraying those whom I care about or stepping on people's heads. Sometimes, you gotta sacrifice for the larger picture.
You'll do what you think is right in the end.
Side note: Bartenders aren't LTR material and your friend should know that. Bartender is on the stripper/escort spectrum.