tiburon
Banned
So i met this girl on campus and to be frank i have made many mistakes as far a DJing her goes. It is funny what can happen to a DJ when he feels a deeper thing than just fvcking her. She is pretty but not gorgeous, i have had better, but what caught my attention were here eyes and smile, she seemed charming and real. Probably this is the only time i have gone after a girl i was more attracted for their personality than even physically but dont get me wrong she is sexy aswell but like i said i have had better.
Getting to the point , when i met her was because i introduced myself and told her if she would like to go for a walk one of this days. She gave me her number. I made my mistakes Djing as the more i talked to this girl the harder it was pulling back and keeping some things unsaid but i have to say after all the mistakes i was able to reel her in... I had some great DJ moves on her that overcame any mistakes!
No this is when it gets interesting. First time i go for the kiss i get turned down..end up kissing the side of her lips and with the impression as if i was being to fast on the girl. I probably was, this was quite soon after i got her number lol..trust me on this one( this was a mistake)...well after that i acted as if nothing had happened , i when out with her she had a great time and so did i but at the end of the night didnt even kiss her... which kind of shock her because i thing she was anxious expecting it or didnt want the night to end ..but not kissing her that night or not even making a move on her worked as expected......Interest back through the roof !!!
So the third time i see her she approches me when i was sitting down in the community center of my university . From there we go for a walk. I have another great talk(she was charming afterall!)and I try being Casanova ...she likes it ...but comes up...telling me she is shy and never got to kiss her lips (this is the first time this happens to me lol)....OK....no problem ...everything under control . At that moment i knew she liked me and that the cure to the problem was one more week of DJING, but so far i wa s 0 out of 2 at kissing her.
I tell her one day when we walk into each other that this Sunday i was free and if that was her case aswell i wanted to meet up with her. She says : "yeah but during the night." Next time i see her i said ok iam picking you up at 7:30 i am taking you out dinner . She looked as if i had impressed her and liked the fact that i was making that offer but not really jumping through the roof ...she agreed ...but asked me if I could pick her up later aswell because she had to find out at what time she was coming back from some scholarship crap but that she was sure it was before 8:30. So my cell is fvcked up right now and i give her my email and tell her to let me know. Now it gets more interesting....hahah
That same night around 8 she sends me an email pretty much saying that she wanted to chill with me for a little bit if i was free later on that night. I was surprised because this was a huge interest sign from here that i wasnt expecting even tough i knew she liked me. So aroud ten when i was free i responded and 25 minutes later we go for a walk.
This time it was either kiss or miss and if i didn't kiss her i was definitely going to take a friednly path that is definitely not my style ..lol. So we walk enjoying each others company we seat in this nice place and.... i kiss her ....kind of stolen kiss but she didnt refuse to it but when i tried to get a better kiss in she moves and i kiss her in the sides of the lips ..AGAIN....NOW IAM GETTING PISSED AND IF THINGS DONT CLEAR UP SHE IS GETTING NEXTED...but things did clear up. Some how we ended up in this conversation that led to her telling me she liked me as a friend for now which i responded by saying that my intentions with her were not to be friends...she said : " I know." and told me that i like to rush things tough . Honestly i tought i was going slow enough already....but from there the conversation led to the dinner on Sunday and i asked her frankly why she didnt seem excited about going out to dinner. She told me that she didnt know but it ended up telling me the last thing i wanted to hear come out of her mouth. SHE SAYS:
"I just got out of a 2 year realtionship and i dont think i am ready for a relationship and i wanted to hang with you get to know you better but i have mixed feelings in fact my ex is my best friend right now and he was the wresteler i told you i went o visit at his competition at Ithaca College(a campus in the same city as Cornell), i have mixed feelings"
BOOMMMMMMMM........the night got FVCKED UP...my faced expressions took an U -TURN. She saw this, and i have not a clue what she tought at the time but i was like " I CANT BELIEVE THIS SHYT" of course i didnt say this outloud. I told her that not too long ago i had been a 2 year relationship and that i understand what she is trying to say but that by no means i was going to be the guy to pick her up or her bags from her last relationship. That this was unfair from her part and that by no ways i was looking into a relationship and that i was just living one day at a time. I told her that we should call the dinner off , that it wasnt a big deal, but to change convesations because this was ruinning the night. She agreed and said that she was over her ex just not ready for another relationship. I said ok but clearly i didnt belive the over her ex part. ( EVERY girl i have dumped wants to be friends with me because she doesnt get over me and wants to get me back on her web.)
The night continued and somehow it was saved and we end up kissing at least twice ...now this were REAL KIsses...I enjoyed them ...but she will not give in completely and through the rest of the night she acted as if she didnt want me to get used to kissing her like that. So no problem i walk her home and ...before i let her go.. i told her:
" Listen Michelle i had a great night, and so far you have been as tought you would be , but about that convesation we had tonight....can we never mentioned that topic again...."
she interrupts: "yeah but i don't......"
I interrupt : " i know , i dont know what happens tomorrow, and i dont know what happens the day after that in fact and i dont know what happens when i leave tonight. I am just living one day at a time but i thing that topic can ruin alot of things"
I bring my arm over her waist pull her close give her a semi- hug and she kisses me very close to my lips and we say good night.
No after this, believe it or not i wasnt happy about the situation.That EX Topic and the fact they were bestfriends kind of ruined things for me. The girl was being frank when she said it and i know she wasnt playing games. In fact i am pretty sure she realizes there is something wrong in she approaching me knowing my intentions even tough she says " SHE HAS MIXED FEELINGS!''. I like her but i dont know were we go from here. At that mmoment i felt i was to good to be rebound or to to even have to deal with that scenario. I am not calling her as of right now just waiting to see what she does about it.
I would like to hear different opinions about this situation.....criticism....advice ..ect.
Tiburon
Getting to the point , when i met her was because i introduced myself and told her if she would like to go for a walk one of this days. She gave me her number. I made my mistakes Djing as the more i talked to this girl the harder it was pulling back and keeping some things unsaid but i have to say after all the mistakes i was able to reel her in... I had some great DJ moves on her that overcame any mistakes!
No this is when it gets interesting. First time i go for the kiss i get turned down..end up kissing the side of her lips and with the impression as if i was being to fast on the girl. I probably was, this was quite soon after i got her number lol..trust me on this one( this was a mistake)...well after that i acted as if nothing had happened , i when out with her she had a great time and so did i but at the end of the night didnt even kiss her... which kind of shock her because i thing she was anxious expecting it or didnt want the night to end ..but not kissing her that night or not even making a move on her worked as expected......Interest back through the roof !!!
So the third time i see her she approches me when i was sitting down in the community center of my university . From there we go for a walk. I have another great talk(she was charming afterall!)and I try being Casanova ...she likes it ...but comes up...telling me she is shy and never got to kiss her lips (this is the first time this happens to me lol)....OK....no problem ...everything under control . At that moment i knew she liked me and that the cure to the problem was one more week of DJING, but so far i wa s 0 out of 2 at kissing her.
I tell her one day when we walk into each other that this Sunday i was free and if that was her case aswell i wanted to meet up with her. She says : "yeah but during the night." Next time i see her i said ok iam picking you up at 7:30 i am taking you out dinner . She looked as if i had impressed her and liked the fact that i was making that offer but not really jumping through the roof ...she agreed ...but asked me if I could pick her up later aswell because she had to find out at what time she was coming back from some scholarship crap but that she was sure it was before 8:30. So my cell is fvcked up right now and i give her my email and tell her to let me know. Now it gets more interesting....hahah
That same night around 8 she sends me an email pretty much saying that she wanted to chill with me for a little bit if i was free later on that night. I was surprised because this was a huge interest sign from here that i wasnt expecting even tough i knew she liked me. So aroud ten when i was free i responded and 25 minutes later we go for a walk.
This time it was either kiss or miss and if i didn't kiss her i was definitely going to take a friednly path that is definitely not my style ..lol. So we walk enjoying each others company we seat in this nice place and.... i kiss her ....kind of stolen kiss but she didnt refuse to it but when i tried to get a better kiss in she moves and i kiss her in the sides of the lips ..AGAIN....NOW IAM GETTING PISSED AND IF THINGS DONT CLEAR UP SHE IS GETTING NEXTED...but things did clear up. Some how we ended up in this conversation that led to her telling me she liked me as a friend for now which i responded by saying that my intentions with her were not to be friends...she said : " I know." and told me that i like to rush things tough . Honestly i tought i was going slow enough already....but from there the conversation led to the dinner on Sunday and i asked her frankly why she didnt seem excited about going out to dinner. She told me that she didnt know but it ended up telling me the last thing i wanted to hear come out of her mouth. SHE SAYS:
"I just got out of a 2 year realtionship and i dont think i am ready for a relationship and i wanted to hang with you get to know you better but i have mixed feelings in fact my ex is my best friend right now and he was the wresteler i told you i went o visit at his competition at Ithaca College(a campus in the same city as Cornell), i have mixed feelings"
BOOMMMMMMMM........the night got FVCKED UP...my faced expressions took an U -TURN. She saw this, and i have not a clue what she tought at the time but i was like " I CANT BELIEVE THIS SHYT" of course i didnt say this outloud. I told her that not too long ago i had been a 2 year relationship and that i understand what she is trying to say but that by no means i was going to be the guy to pick her up or her bags from her last relationship. That this was unfair from her part and that by no ways i was looking into a relationship and that i was just living one day at a time. I told her that we should call the dinner off , that it wasnt a big deal, but to change convesations because this was ruinning the night. She agreed and said that she was over her ex just not ready for another relationship. I said ok but clearly i didnt belive the over her ex part. ( EVERY girl i have dumped wants to be friends with me because she doesnt get over me and wants to get me back on her web.)
The night continued and somehow it was saved and we end up kissing at least twice ...now this were REAL KIsses...I enjoyed them ...but she will not give in completely and through the rest of the night she acted as if she didnt want me to get used to kissing her like that. So no problem i walk her home and ...before i let her go.. i told her:
" Listen Michelle i had a great night, and so far you have been as tought you would be , but about that convesation we had tonight....can we never mentioned that topic again...."
she interrupts: "yeah but i don't......"
I interrupt : " i know , i dont know what happens tomorrow, and i dont know what happens the day after that in fact and i dont know what happens when i leave tonight. I am just living one day at a time but i thing that topic can ruin alot of things"
I bring my arm over her waist pull her close give her a semi- hug and she kisses me very close to my lips and we say good night.
No after this, believe it or not i wasnt happy about the situation.That EX Topic and the fact they were bestfriends kind of ruined things for me. The girl was being frank when she said it and i know she wasnt playing games. In fact i am pretty sure she realizes there is something wrong in she approaching me knowing my intentions even tough she says " SHE HAS MIXED FEELINGS!''. I like her but i dont know were we go from here. At that mmoment i felt i was to good to be rebound or to to even have to deal with that scenario. I am not calling her as of right now just waiting to see what she does about it.
I would like to hear different opinions about this situation.....criticism....advice ..ect.
Tiburon