Unusual problem. I've known this girl for a while now, she lives a few streets away from me, her brother is an old classmate of mine. I used to see her around sometimes, she's even on my facebook, but we never really talked properly until a few weeks ago. On that occasion her and I got on well, laughed, and connected. The problem is, I'm unlikely to see her again for a long time, if ever. Yes, she lives nearby, but we're extremely unlikely to be bump into eachother like that again, and her Brother and I aren't classmates anymore. We just don't run in the same circles.
But here's the thing, I'm not interested in her romantically; I actually would just like to be her friend. You think i'm crazy? Well I'm already dating a few girls and frankly i'm not attracted to this one, she just seems really cool and honest (rare for a girl). Basically I think she'd make a good friend. But how to make it happen? Send her a message on Facebook? If so, what would I say? It would seem very odd and out of the blue since I never really spoke to her before, and I don't want to give her the wrong idea.
How do you become friends with someone who has been an acquaintance for a long time, especially someone of the opposite sex? And what approach could I take in a facebook message?
(Please, no replies saying "why do you want to be friends with a girl?" Females are people too.
But here's the thing, I'm not interested in her romantically; I actually would just like to be her friend. You think i'm crazy? Well I'm already dating a few girls and frankly i'm not attracted to this one, she just seems really cool and honest (rare for a girl). Basically I think she'd make a good friend. But how to make it happen? Send her a message on Facebook? If so, what would I say? It would seem very odd and out of the blue since I never really spoke to her before, and I don't want to give her the wrong idea.
How do you become friends with someone who has been an acquaintance for a long time, especially someone of the opposite sex? And what approach could I take in a facebook message?
(Please, no replies saying "why do you want to be friends with a girl?" Females are people too.