My ex of 3 years ago has been in contact with me recently, and things have escalated to the point of me ****ing her every time we meet. I enjoy it, she enjoys it, however she is engaged, and is meeting me behind the guys back.
I broke it off with this girl 3 years ago due to her wanting marriage, and me not being ready to settle. Now she's engaged and I think she's torn thinking about getting married and doing things she will not regret in the future. I know I'm morally and ethically in the wrong for doing this chick, and screwing the husband. But I am really selfish and enjoy the intimacy and chemistry this girl brings.
This begs the question, what is the end game? I won't be marrying her, knowing that she could cheat on me such as that of her current fiance. I would possibly get in a relationship if they broke up the engagement, but i don't want to be known as the home wrecker. I don't see a future together except for crazy sex and good times. I can't offer her stability or a family, as I'm focused on career and personal progression.
What would you guys do? I'm 24, single, finishing my bachelors in 6 months and have 1 other girl on the back burner. I want to continue meeting this chick and ****ing her, but am worried I could potentially get feelings or hurt myself in the future by getting attached to something that won't end well. Please advise.
I broke it off with this girl 3 years ago due to her wanting marriage, and me not being ready to settle. Now she's engaged and I think she's torn thinking about getting married and doing things she will not regret in the future. I know I'm morally and ethically in the wrong for doing this chick, and screwing the husband. But I am really selfish and enjoy the intimacy and chemistry this girl brings.
This begs the question, what is the end game? I won't be marrying her, knowing that she could cheat on me such as that of her current fiance. I would possibly get in a relationship if they broke up the engagement, but i don't want to be known as the home wrecker. I don't see a future together except for crazy sex and good times. I can't offer her stability or a family, as I'm focused on career and personal progression.
What would you guys do? I'm 24, single, finishing my bachelors in 6 months and have 1 other girl on the back burner. I want to continue meeting this chick and ****ing her, but am worried I could potentially get feelings or hurt myself in the future by getting attached to something that won't end well. Please advise.