CoolRunning
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Any suggestions on meeting women via match.com, for the more mature man?
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Bear in mind I have just started using match. Here are my suggestions.ogre said:I also could use some help with Match. I just signed up and I scould use some tips on writing an effective bio.
also, is it better to wink or to email?
Ugghhh...that line literally states rescuer/savior and will probably nix any shot at a bad boy / mystery angle. Also note the more supplicative non-prize tone.ogre said:for fun:
Medieval swordfighting. Chivalry is very much alive. Your Knight in Shining Armor beckons you. Will you answer the call?
150 contacts with 2 replies?? What email are you sending out?ogre said:Hi Francisco
yes I am doing that... I haven't been on this forum for awhile. I was using myspace and I found that it's great for political blogging but it sucks for meeting women. or maybe it's just me. I dunno. I met a chick from myspace about a month ago, we clicked, it was like magic, everything went perfect, and then she just flaked. it's like no matter what I do, I lose. I had another date from myspace with the Chick from Hell. it's a funny story I should post it.
vulpine: of any of the ho's you said "no thanks" to, did any of them write back?
I can try the "it's not polite to ignore thing" - but will that actually get the chicks to come around or does it just serve to feed your ego?
ok, I have this in my profile..... what do you all think:
for fun:
Medieval swordfighting. Chivalry is very much alive. Your Knight in Shining Armor beckons you. Will you answer the call?
my education:
Post-Graduate with Honors from U.H.K. (University of Hard Knocks) And currently working on my dissertation on Life, the Universe, and Everything. Aum...
favorite hot spots:
My place! JK... seriously, though, someplace quiet where you can see stars at night.....
btw I sent out about 150 contacts so far. mostly emails, one or two lines. so far I got only 2 replies (plus a few fakes/scams) I got one wink right away from someone who I was only mildly interested in and we IM'd and then talked on the phone for awhile, but it just fizzled apart after that. she said she was sick with the flu or something. should I wait a week and give her a call?
Mass mailings of emails seldom work, most guys do it so a woman could easily get 20 or more emails a day. Ones that are longer (but not too long) and is specific to her profile have a better chance of getting replies. Also, getting a phone number can be a unnecessary step. You can get a date from just a couple of well written emails.CoolRunning said:150 contacts with 2 replies?? What email are you sending out?
BTW, I have found that you should take it from the phone to a meeting ASAP.
ogre said:...btw I really do medieval swordfighting and I have the pics on the profile to prove it. but I see your point about supplicative non-prize tone. but what's wrong with being a rescuer/savior? I thought that is a good thing?