Hey everyone,
I'm realizing lately that most likely due to so many failures in the recent past that I am at this point fine and smooth as silk when I am meeting someone in person, but after that I have a serious phobia of rejection when trying to set something up after the fact or follow up with someone. Have had so many failures and just blatant ignores after the fact that I'm tired of it and don't want to go through any more rejections, so I have basically stopped closing in the first place. It's also crossed over to another level. I was basically setup with someone by my brother and sister in law, we hung out kissed, blah whatever a couple days in a row, but now I'm defaulting to rejection on following up after the fact and it shows in my communication with the girl. I'm anticipating it. My goal in getting game is to have tons of beautiful women as options I can take or leave whenever, and at this point I'm more of an approach artist then a pickup artist and I'm not sure how to get over this new phobia that I've created for myself. Does anyone have good advice on getting this handled, maybe some kind of exercise to help me fix my major fear of follow up rejection or method they use for the initial follow ups that work well for them, so I can get over it with more success?
It would be VERY much appreciated.
I'm realizing lately that most likely due to so many failures in the recent past that I am at this point fine and smooth as silk when I am meeting someone in person, but after that I have a serious phobia of rejection when trying to set something up after the fact or follow up with someone. Have had so many failures and just blatant ignores after the fact that I'm tired of it and don't want to go through any more rejections, so I have basically stopped closing in the first place. It's also crossed over to another level. I was basically setup with someone by my brother and sister in law, we hung out kissed, blah whatever a couple days in a row, but now I'm defaulting to rejection on following up after the fact and it shows in my communication with the girl. I'm anticipating it. My goal in getting game is to have tons of beautiful women as options I can take or leave whenever, and at this point I'm more of an approach artist then a pickup artist and I'm not sure how to get over this new phobia that I've created for myself. Does anyone have good advice on getting this handled, maybe some kind of exercise to help me fix my major fear of follow up rejection or method they use for the initial follow ups that work well for them, so I can get over it with more success?
It would be VERY much appreciated.