Ok, so I have a big problem with approach anxiety. I don't know what it is, but every time I see a girl, unless she waves or calls me over, I just don't go up to her. Its mostly due to the fact of the 3 second rule, and I feel that I wasted too much time already to approach her otherwise she'd know that I had to build up confidence just to go talk to her etc etc. For example, almost every time I go out with my friends, I'll usually get eye contact and sometimes a smile from the hottest girls. Keeping eye contact and smiling back isn't a problem for me, its just opening up. I feel as if I won't know what to say, and even if I just go say Hi that I'll run out of stuff to talk about without it sounding like an interview. Like tonight, I went out with my best friend and his girl friend(also a good friend of mine), and there were 3 or 4 HB8+'s that made eye contact and/or smiled at me. I smiled back, but didn't make a move.
Anyone have any tricks for overcoming this? Or am I just gonna have to crash and burn until I get experienced enough to constantly go up to them?
Thanks
Anyone have any tricks for overcoming this? Or am I just gonna have to crash and burn until I get experienced enough to constantly go up to them?
Thanks