Just to update, my main plate (tall, slim, sexy Eastern European 8.5 who is 8 years younger) is my LTR now, and I've given up my other plates (gasp).
The divorce case she was having is sorted now, though she is still in a child custody case (a son from a previous marriage, who doesn't live with her or even in our country).
It felt like a bit of an "up or out" situation, promote her or lose her, and I've decided to give it a go. I feel that I am better off and happier with one of her, than to have 5 plates who are 6's and 7's.
We live 3.5 hours away from each other (we used to live in the same city, but I had to move away for work reasons), and she'd have to find a new job to join me in my new city, but I guess that is detail to sort later.
On a trip away together I discovered she can be high maintenance (nitpicked me about the detail of how to take the photos on the trip) and nagged me about being a better guy in general (e.g. "know the wines we are ordering", lol; it pisses her off to know that I can afford better but like to eat junk food, "my friend fell for her guy fast because he could cook well"), but I think it is OK, she apologised at the end without prompting, and she verbalised how she feels for me (to which I just said, good to know).
I called her out on being high maintenance and she didn't deny it and even said, well if you like low maintenance there are less attractive girls than me who would be. Lol. I told her if not for her looks I would dump her, but she can get away with a little bit more on account of her looks.
Its all good, I like the honesty, I think this girl and I understand each other.
The divorce case she was having is sorted now, though she is still in a child custody case (a son from a previous marriage, who doesn't live with her or even in our country).
It felt like a bit of an "up or out" situation, promote her or lose her, and I've decided to give it a go. I feel that I am better off and happier with one of her, than to have 5 plates who are 6's and 7's.
We live 3.5 hours away from each other (we used to live in the same city, but I had to move away for work reasons), and she'd have to find a new job to join me in my new city, but I guess that is detail to sort later.
On a trip away together I discovered she can be high maintenance (nitpicked me about the detail of how to take the photos on the trip) and nagged me about being a better guy in general (e.g. "know the wines we are ordering", lol; it pisses her off to know that I can afford better but like to eat junk food, "my friend fell for her guy fast because he could cook well"), but I think it is OK, she apologised at the end without prompting, and she verbalised how she feels for me (to which I just said, good to know).
I called her out on being high maintenance and she didn't deny it and even said, well if you like low maintenance there are less attractive girls than me who would be. Lol. I told her if not for her looks I would dump her, but she can get away with a little bit more on account of her looks.
Its all good, I like the honesty, I think this girl and I understand each other.