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Magic Word... Get All The Girls You Want

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Leon Phelps

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there is no magic word... i just have a question

Do you believe that personality can mesh? Let me explain what i mean

Okay this girl, like a 9, wicked hot. Except shes not very outgoing, not that shes shy, she just lets things come to her. She has low self esteem, despite the way she looks.

Personally, i like an outgoing chick. Like thats what i go for, not me being a ***** or nuttin, just thats what i go for.

My friends say i should ignore waht i see as faults in her, and ask her out. (she likes me A LOT). I ardy know i dont want to date her for this reason , but id like to see other peoples opinions on it.
 

RaMar

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what the **** is wrong with you. You don't need to f00l people into reading your post by giving it a different name. The people who want to help you will read it no matter what the title. Thats all the advice im going to give you.
 

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Yeah, if you wanna attract more people to a post, put "boobs" in the title, but keep the original message in the title.
 

Leon Phelps

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**** off... you guys really need to relax

real don juans are relaxed, and wudnt spazz over somethin so silly

****in keyboard jockeys... your just upset cuz you were lookin for a magic word

nerds
 

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first of all, i didnt appreciate fooling us.

2nd, what you see is what you get. if you cant handle it, find another. but you should try getting her to show another side of her personality. hopefully, that would make up for whatever you dont like about her.

look on the bright side, if she's really that insecure about her looks, she's gonne think: 'gee, someone actually appreciates me even if im ugly. i shouldn't let him go!' of course, you're a DJ too, ryt?

thats ol i can say.
 

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Originally posted by Leon Phelps
**** off... you guys really need to relax

real don juans are relaxed, and wudnt spazz over somethin so silly

****in keyboard jockeys... your just upset cuz you were lookin for a magic word

nerds
...did I say that I was a real Don Juan? I'm just learning. And you don't seem overly relaxed either.

Anyways, I might as well help you with yout problem since you're desperate enough to fool us into reading it:

I think that personality can mesh, I was uber shy and living in a self-created bubble until my current best friend moved in next door and taught me the magic of heavy metal and porno.

However, with the chick, I recommend you next her...change won't happen that fast and it sounds like one-itis to me. Even if you get her to act more like you want, she'll be acting out of person and the relationship will quickly crash and burn. Keep her in mind but expand your parameters.
 

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Originally posted by Leon Phelps
**** off...
Originally posted by Leon Phelps
****in keyboard jockeys... your just upset cuz you were lookin for a magic word
Originally posted by Leon Phelps
nerds
Originally posted by Leon Phelps
real don juans are relaxed, and wudnt spazz over somethin so silly
 

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Originally posted by Leon Phelps
**** off... you guys really need to relax

real don juans are relaxed, and wudnt spazz over somethin so silly

****in keyboard jockeys... your just upset cuz you were lookin for a magic word

nerds
You're the one spazzing out over one girl. If you don't want to date her, don't date her. We don't know your situation and the advice we give you probably isn't the advice you're giving yourself.
 

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Hold up, we all need to chill here, ok, so he fooled us into reading the post but calm down. It's not the end of the world.
 

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leon,

after we get past the fact that you've pissed off half the ppl on this board with a misleading title, let me answer your question:

you will NEVER EVER EVER succeed with this girl or any other IF you need to look outside of yourself for answers.

Why are you asking your friends if you should date her?
Why are you asking US if you should date her?

Are you going to ask when you should hold her hand? take her to dinner? kiss her? dump her?

Ask this: "DO I WANT TO DATE HER?" and you ACT on THAT. Do whatever the hell you want man... okay so you don't go for LSE chicks (neither do I) but she's "wicked hot" so might as well tap something. Forget LTRs just hook up or have a casual relationship.

Stop whining about if you should do it or not. Unless there is VERY good reason to be debating about this girl, then do what you feel like. end of story.
 

Leon Phelps

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you people missed the point of the board entirely

I AM NOT asking for advice

I DONT NEED HELP on succeeding with this bitc*, as i said before, bitc* sweats my nuts

Im merely raising an issue for discussion

I DONT CARE who i pissed off, the ones who got pissed missed why i did what i did

so **** off if u dont wanna talk intelligent... ****in nerds
 

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Geez, someone just close this f***ing topic, this isn't gonna get anywhere. If you want the discussion just make a new one that's titled right.
 

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Originally posted by Leon Phelps
**** off... you guys really need to relax

real don juans are relaxed, and wudnt spazz over somethin so silly

****in keyboard jockeys... your just upset cuz you were lookin for a magic word

nerds

so **** off if u dont wanna talk intelligent... ****in nerds
Oh the irony. :rolleyes:

Actually, I read this because you spawned 3 other threads talking about this. I just HAD to find out what was so interesting.

I didn't find it.
 

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so **** off if u dont wanna talk intelligent... ****in nerds

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misunderstood??

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This isn't going anywhere, so I'm going to close it on you Leon. Hopefully you learned some things though about how to get constructive responses though.
 
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