Women's expectation rise as they get older, why shouldn't ours rise to meet theirs, along with what we expect from ourselves?
If someone says to lower your standards for what you expect in a woman, maybe it's time to RAISE your standards for what you expect from YOURSELF.
That means showing some ambition and getting that raise you were offered, for instance. Lose some weight, hit the gym, work on your self image. Buy some nice shoes.
It's a sad truth that women have some unrealistic expectations from us men, but have so little to offer in return. Offering us a "ready-made family" is no offer at all.
It shouldn't be too much to ask for a woman whose looks haven't crashed!
Women call their body types "Average", but the "average" American woman is forty pounds obese.
I live in a yuppie commuterville and it's filled with hot SAHMs. I'm sure a few of them are single.
What you have to watch out for is meeting women who seem to have it all, but then you discover they're a hot dripping mess behind the scenes: toxic never-ending divorces, toxic kids, careers down the toilet, upside down mortgages, and so on. I go for the yuppie trophy (ex)wives, and my last one was the sort that most men would crawl over broken glass to be with. She dumped me after four months of cosmic se* because she needed to deal with the chaos in her life, or so she said. That was over four years ago. Today she won't speak to me, or I'd ask her how that's coming along. When she sees me at work, she looks like she's in pain-- and it's all internal.
Today, with some help from health issues, my own career has tanked. Rather than lower my standards, and date my meth-head client, I'd rather mind my own business.