Hello everyone,
I'm here for advice. I have come close to having sex, and have had invitations that (in retrospect) must have been of a sexual nature.
My problem is that I am way too afraid of attachment to actually make advances or go through with it. What can I do (before or after) to reduce the probability of attachment while also not losing my ability to be attached to anything? I still want to be passionate about my hobbies and commitments and such. In other words, how do I localize apathy to sexual intercourse.
Segev
I'm here for advice. I have come close to having sex, and have had invitations that (in retrospect) must have been of a sexual nature.
My problem is that I am way too afraid of attachment to actually make advances or go through with it. What can I do (before or after) to reduce the probability of attachment while also not losing my ability to be attached to anything? I still want to be passionate about my hobbies and commitments and such. In other words, how do I localize apathy to sexual intercourse.
Segev