She isn't the one starting to losing interest. I am. If I lose complete interest, I'd obviously just move on to another girl. It's not at that point yet. I wouldn't have a problem finding another, but I'd rather keep this girl. I think this one is really great, both looks and personality are amazing; she is just not challenging to me.
She is always the one driving and coming over to my place to hang out or before we leave for somewhere (recently moved back in with her parents for a bit, so I have no intention of going there). I always pick our dates, and when she does suggest something, it's obvious that she does so based on the fact I would like to do it. They are often things she isn't so big on. Though things she enjoys are things I like to do as well, I just seem to have more hobbies or activites that I like doing when compared to her.
To me it seems like she is putting in a lot of effort and investment (which is good). Though I'm putting forth some effort, it isn't a lot and it hasn't seemed necessary to me as she will come over or do something with me whenever I tell/suggest it to her.
What can I do to get her to be more of a challenge to me or to increase her value without lowering my own?
She is always the one driving and coming over to my place to hang out or before we leave for somewhere (recently moved back in with her parents for a bit, so I have no intention of going there). I always pick our dates, and when she does suggest something, it's obvious that she does so based on the fact I would like to do it. They are often things she isn't so big on. Though things she enjoys are things I like to do as well, I just seem to have more hobbies or activites that I like doing when compared to her.
To me it seems like she is putting in a lot of effort and investment (which is good). Though I'm putting forth some effort, it isn't a lot and it hasn't seemed necessary to me as she will come over or do something with me whenever I tell/suggest it to her.
What can I do to get her to be more of a challenge to me or to increase her value without lowering my own?