Ok, so I have a lady friend and we seem to have established a recurring pattern. We get close over a few months, hookup, and then she gets scared and says LJBF, but then after a cool down we start building up tension and it happens again.
So here we are again. I am quite fond of her, but I don't want just friendship, and I can see this pattern playing itself out again. In fact it seems that part of the reason we are such close friends is because of this tension between us, so it has never really been "lets just be friends". I know what you're thinking. Move on, forget about it, etc... but you know, I can't help myself, and I don't really want to forget about it.
It would be nice to see one of these cycles end in a LTR, because we get along that well. She is obviously being very fickle, so I wonder if putting my foot down and saying "no more" would make her more decisive.
So here we are again. I am quite fond of her, but I don't want just friendship, and I can see this pattern playing itself out again. In fact it seems that part of the reason we are such close friends is because of this tension between us, so it has never really been "lets just be friends". I know what you're thinking. Move on, forget about it, etc... but you know, I can't help myself, and I don't really want to forget about it.
It would be nice to see one of these cycles end in a LTR, because we get along that well. She is obviously being very fickle, so I wonder if putting my foot down and saying "no more" would make her more decisive.