I've read post after post about how to play your cards right with chicks. How to get this girl back that left. How to change a girls mind. Here is how to do all of that:
Walk away!
For LTRs just back off and give it some breathing room. Don't suffocate or latch on. Be respectful of their free will.
If you've come here to ask how to get a woman to do this or that, then she's obviously not playing right. If you're all up a woman's butt, then she'll take advantage of you. Have some self respect and say "no". I'm not putting up with it. I'm happy and confident with myself to know I go on without you. If she has any desire for you, she'll be back, and you'll make her work for your attention and affection. If she doesn't come back, you're were worrying over nothing because you only wasted your time.
Another thing is to make yourself a list of standards (a check list). If the woman you're interested in has anything marked out, then NEXT her. Forget her because you have standards. I promise you that if you have standards and pride in yourself, women who like you will strive to meet those standards. If they don't, then next her because one of your standards will be to find a woman with mutual respect.
Now, about living life for yourself. Stop trying to find happiness in women. Stop trying to find validation and happiness from external sources. Find happiness in yourself. Do things that excite you. Start improving yourself in areas of your life that important. If you are living in your parents at the age of 20, get yourself in school because you have a perfect opportunity right now. Find some great hobbies. Start fishing, play darts and get into some tournaments, karate, golf, take a dance class, church, get a motorcycle and find people to ride with, go on a singles cruise, make friends and make road trips, hit the gym and get your body ready for summer, and whatever else you enjoy.
Get out there and make GREAT memories. Live life like there is no tomorrow. Forget whining in your bedroom, writing love poems, and suicide notes. These women want a MAN. They want a guy who knows who he is and what he wants out of life. Stop the negativity and start the positivity.
It's hard to make one woman happy. Having several is much easier and more satisfying. If you don't have several, find other things (hobbies) that you love just as much and go after them just as hard as you do with women. That way you won't be up some woman's butt.
A woman will test you over and over, and if you're easily caught, it's over. Be the catch and stay just out of her reach. Tell yourself that you're the catch, not her!
Walk away!
For LTRs just back off and give it some breathing room. Don't suffocate or latch on. Be respectful of their free will.
If you've come here to ask how to get a woman to do this or that, then she's obviously not playing right. If you're all up a woman's butt, then she'll take advantage of you. Have some self respect and say "no". I'm not putting up with it. I'm happy and confident with myself to know I go on without you. If she has any desire for you, she'll be back, and you'll make her work for your attention and affection. If she doesn't come back, you're were worrying over nothing because you only wasted your time.
Another thing is to make yourself a list of standards (a check list). If the woman you're interested in has anything marked out, then NEXT her. Forget her because you have standards. I promise you that if you have standards and pride in yourself, women who like you will strive to meet those standards. If they don't, then next her because one of your standards will be to find a woman with mutual respect.
Now, about living life for yourself. Stop trying to find happiness in women. Stop trying to find validation and happiness from external sources. Find happiness in yourself. Do things that excite you. Start improving yourself in areas of your life that important. If you are living in your parents at the age of 20, get yourself in school because you have a perfect opportunity right now. Find some great hobbies. Start fishing, play darts and get into some tournaments, karate, golf, take a dance class, church, get a motorcycle and find people to ride with, go on a singles cruise, make friends and make road trips, hit the gym and get your body ready for summer, and whatever else you enjoy.
Get out there and make GREAT memories. Live life like there is no tomorrow. Forget whining in your bedroom, writing love poems, and suicide notes. These women want a MAN. They want a guy who knows who he is and what he wants out of life. Stop the negativity and start the positivity.
It's hard to make one woman happy. Having several is much easier and more satisfying. If you don't have several, find other things (hobbies) that you love just as much and go after them just as hard as you do with women. That way you won't be up some woman's butt.
A woman will test you over and over, and if you're easily caught, it's over. Be the catch and stay just out of her reach. Tell yourself that you're the catch, not her!
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