Frank Zappa
Senior Don Juan
Hey,
Life over all is really good, not a player, but the stream has been steady. It's been in a long time since I've really had strong feelings for someone though.
So here's my situation:
Over the past week and a half, things between me and this girl have been developing. I mean, it was innocent at first, but the tension had slowly been building. Then last week coming home from the bars, we just stood on the street and made out for a while.
Anyway, a lot of things are working in my favor:
1)She knows I'm dating other people
2)I don't call her that often
3)When we're together I always show her a good time and she gives interest signs pretty much a lot of the time at this point.
Well here's the problem. Her old BF (dated a few months) is moving back from another city in with her, but she told him he has to get his living situation in order and move out. Anyway, this guy is a classic AFC. REALLY jealous and insecure, especially of me (with good reason).
So things have been great, but the guy just moved in, and I haven't talked to her in a few days since then. I'm not sweating it too much, but I would like to eventually "win" her over. Also, I'm not cutting ties with anyone else I'm seeing either because I've learned my eggs in one basket lesson before.
I know this girl is starting to have feelings for me, and that's where I have left her off. It's been a couple days since we've spoken; what do you think is my next move?
I know I'm going to see her in a couple days because of our mutual friends and happy hour.
Life over all is really good, not a player, but the stream has been steady. It's been in a long time since I've really had strong feelings for someone though.
So here's my situation:
Over the past week and a half, things between me and this girl have been developing. I mean, it was innocent at first, but the tension had slowly been building. Then last week coming home from the bars, we just stood on the street and made out for a while.
Anyway, a lot of things are working in my favor:
1)She knows I'm dating other people
2)I don't call her that often
3)When we're together I always show her a good time and she gives interest signs pretty much a lot of the time at this point.
Well here's the problem. Her old BF (dated a few months) is moving back from another city in with her, but she told him he has to get his living situation in order and move out. Anyway, this guy is a classic AFC. REALLY jealous and insecure, especially of me (with good reason).
So things have been great, but the guy just moved in, and I haven't talked to her in a few days since then. I'm not sweating it too much, but I would like to eventually "win" her over. Also, I'm not cutting ties with anyone else I'm seeing either because I've learned my eggs in one basket lesson before.
I know this girl is starting to have feelings for me, and that's where I have left her off. It's been a couple days since we've spoken; what do you think is my next move?
I know I'm going to see her in a couple days because of our mutual friends and happy hour.