princesimba
Don Juan
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Women, being women, love it when people listen to them.
Sometimes, they talk about their problems.
Usually, whenever a completely platonic female friends tells me her problems, i will do my best to listen (if its a genuine problem), and I will offer advice or help if i can.
I think as a friend its my job to help my friends, male or female, with their problems, or even by just listening to them. As long as they dont do it too often and respect my time.
However at the same time, i also respect myself. And i definitely do not want to get to a stage where i become known in my social circles as that "nice guy" who always listens to girl's problems.
Not to mention, these ugly girls almost always know other hot girls. Listening and responding to their problems the right way can mean the difference between them hooking me up with a cute girl and them hooking me up with a whale :crackup:
The impression i get from reading these threads is that the best time to listen to a woman talk about her problems is NEVER. The argument is that men who listen and help only did so to try and get into the girls' pants, and is never really interested in listening/helping in the first place. As a result, the man disrespects himself by being "nice".
What lines do i set when listening to platonic womens' problems then? Should i even listen to them? How do i do so without compromising my values? Without being "nice"?
Sometimes, they talk about their problems.
Usually, whenever a completely platonic female friends tells me her problems, i will do my best to listen (if its a genuine problem), and I will offer advice or help if i can.
I think as a friend its my job to help my friends, male or female, with their problems, or even by just listening to them. As long as they dont do it too often and respect my time.
However at the same time, i also respect myself. And i definitely do not want to get to a stage where i become known in my social circles as that "nice guy" who always listens to girl's problems.
Not to mention, these ugly girls almost always know other hot girls. Listening and responding to their problems the right way can mean the difference between them hooking me up with a cute girl and them hooking me up with a whale :crackup:
The impression i get from reading these threads is that the best time to listen to a woman talk about her problems is NEVER. The argument is that men who listen and help only did so to try and get into the girls' pants, and is never really interested in listening/helping in the first place. As a result, the man disrespects himself by being "nice".
What lines do i set when listening to platonic womens' problems then? Should i even listen to them? How do i do so without compromising my values? Without being "nice"?