Smooth_texter
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I have also experienced this in some degree.I found the opposite to be true. The more I worked on my charisma, became more knowledgable, increased my wittiness, it had a worse effect on my dates.
Most attractive girls I have been on dates with only liked to talk about trips, restaurants, how bad traffic is, and gossiping about her friends. Trends on social media, new shows on Netflix. Maybe a brief comment on their work on how annoying their boss is.
More charisma, more knowledge about various topics did nothing to help with relatability to any of this.
Working on my physique and my finances helped me much more than that.
I do not watch reality tv (or almost any tv) and I am not aware of the current RT stars of the current celebrity gossip. Such topics come up on with some dates and at work.
What DreamAgain says is that by constantly self improving, while at the same time the opposite gender not putting effort, we widen the gap between our characters and interests. And this leads to repercussions further down the line.
An easy solution is to not take such women seriously (although the majority now are like this), unless you find a decent girl who is highly interested in you.