DO YOU TRUST OTHER PEOPLE?
Attempting to achieve anything in life by yourself is the perfect formula for failure and frustration. Not much in life gets accomplished without the help and support of others. Whether you want to build a business, start a family, or make new friendships, you will at some point need to trust the intention of those around you.
If you have lived enough, you have probably experienced disappointments and situations where other people have hurt you or let you down. If you have experienced several disappointments, it is very possible that you have now built for yourself a thick protective layer around you that prevents you from trusting the intention of others, in order to keep you safe. This can serve as a protective factor, and could be beneficial, but it could also prevent you from moving on in life. Having protective shields around you is likely to prevent you from ever having a real connection with another person, and you are likely to prevent yourself the opportunity to create a new relationship, or friendship that could potentially help you achieve your dreams in the long term.
If you have been hurt by others in the past, then it’s VERY easy to mistrust the intentions of those around you, it is very easy to misinterpret anything they do and assume that they are trying to do something that will lead to hurt and disappointment. This can lead to us feeling suspicious and mistrustful of others. This can lead to an inability to trust the intentions of your partner, which may lead to jealousy, control, insecurity, or anger that you are likely to project towards them, when it may be possible that they never had the intention to hurt, or to do you wrong in the first place.
Lack of trust can also prevent you from forming the alliances and friendships needed in order to succeed in your field and ultimately achieve your goals. If you are to accomplish anything in life, it is VERY important to deal with our own issues around our ability to trust other’s intentions. I personally believe that it is important to give people the benefit of the doubt, and trust in their intentions, UNLESS THEY PROVE OTHERWISE.
Don’t jumpt to conclusions, and don’t assume that someone is going to act in a way that will hurt you unless you have clear evidence that this is so. Assuming and projecting your own insecurities from past disappointments, into your current relationships, is a perfect ingredient to destroy relationships. Lack of trust in your friends and partners, WITHOUT EVIDENCE, is the perfect receipt for the development of insecurity, conflict, breakups, divorces, and dissociation of friendships.
Before you make an assumption in regards to the intentions of another person, ask yourself whether your assumptions are based on reality, or whether they are based on accumulated past experiences that brought you hurt and pain. If your current decisions are based on past hurt, stop yourself and don’t allow this spill into your current relationships.
Allow yourself to trust in other’s intentions, and don’t jump into conclusions UNLESS PROVEN OTHERWISE, and allow yourself the opportunity to form strong bonds with those around you.
Have a nice week
Piero P
Attempting to achieve anything in life by yourself is the perfect formula for failure and frustration. Not much in life gets accomplished without the help and support of others. Whether you want to build a business, start a family, or make new friendships, you will at some point need to trust the intention of those around you.
If you have lived enough, you have probably experienced disappointments and situations where other people have hurt you or let you down. If you have experienced several disappointments, it is very possible that you have now built for yourself a thick protective layer around you that prevents you from trusting the intention of others, in order to keep you safe. This can serve as a protective factor, and could be beneficial, but it could also prevent you from moving on in life. Having protective shields around you is likely to prevent you from ever having a real connection with another person, and you are likely to prevent yourself the opportunity to create a new relationship, or friendship that could potentially help you achieve your dreams in the long term.
If you have been hurt by others in the past, then it’s VERY easy to mistrust the intentions of those around you, it is very easy to misinterpret anything they do and assume that they are trying to do something that will lead to hurt and disappointment. This can lead to us feeling suspicious and mistrustful of others. This can lead to an inability to trust the intentions of your partner, which may lead to jealousy, control, insecurity, or anger that you are likely to project towards them, when it may be possible that they never had the intention to hurt, or to do you wrong in the first place.
Lack of trust can also prevent you from forming the alliances and friendships needed in order to succeed in your field and ultimately achieve your goals. If you are to accomplish anything in life, it is VERY important to deal with our own issues around our ability to trust other’s intentions. I personally believe that it is important to give people the benefit of the doubt, and trust in their intentions, UNLESS THEY PROVE OTHERWISE.
Don’t jumpt to conclusions, and don’t assume that someone is going to act in a way that will hurt you unless you have clear evidence that this is so. Assuming and projecting your own insecurities from past disappointments, into your current relationships, is a perfect ingredient to destroy relationships. Lack of trust in your friends and partners, WITHOUT EVIDENCE, is the perfect receipt for the development of insecurity, conflict, breakups, divorces, and dissociation of friendships.
Before you make an assumption in regards to the intentions of another person, ask yourself whether your assumptions are based on reality, or whether they are based on accumulated past experiences that brought you hurt and pain. If your current decisions are based on past hurt, stop yourself and don’t allow this spill into your current relationships.
Allow yourself to trust in other’s intentions, and don’t jump into conclusions UNLESS PROVEN OTHERWISE, and allow yourself the opportunity to form strong bonds with those around you.
Have a nice week
Piero P
