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Don Juan
There are an abundance of tips that I see posted every day and that I read in the Tip-of-the-Day, and I haven't seen this one yet, but I'm sure it's out there. Anyways...
How many guys out there are interested in exotic ladies. If you live in the U.S. some of you might have a thing for spanish girls, asian girls, french girls, etc. There is a very good biological reason for this. Did you ever hear the saying mutts are the healthiest dogs. Genetic diversity is something which we will strive for to an extent in choosing a mate. This is why incest is so taboo in most civilized cultures. The lack of genetic diversity actually has an adverse affect. So where am I going with all of this? Well...
There is another thing which contradicts the above statement and that is the rule of proximity. The proximity rule basically states that we will be most attracted to those who we see frequently and close to home. How many times have you seen a so-so looking girl (6-8) at the mall or something and later, when you were at your apartment, saw the same girl. Maybe even across the hall. Did you notice your attraction level for this girl went up? This is the proximity rule in practice.
OK, so the foreign language part. If a girl from another country is visiting your country, possibly for schooling or for some other reason, you can put the two above rules into affect to create an immense amount of attraction. You already have one thing going for you, you are of a different nationality than the potential girl. She will have some attraction just because of this. But the next thing will blow her mind. Learn her language. Now, realistically you should already know her language so that you can be fluent and directly impress her, but I've been able to put this into practice simply by learning the language after seeing the girl for the first time. The idea is that you do not show your attraction until you can speak at least some of her NATIVE tongue. When you speak her language you are going to be subconsciously creating that attraction of proximity. She will associate you with every single thing she loves about her homeland. She probably misses her native country and you speaking to her in her tongue while the rest of these poor guys merely can't will score you major props.
Here is how I usually implement this tactic. This past saturday, for example, I came out of a club and saw a beautiful (8-9) girl on the street outside the club. I went up to her (she looked to be of spanish descent and I speak spanish fluently) and said "hey what's up" (in english) we started talking and I said, "so where are you from...?" (in english) and she replied "puerto rico" (my attraction level skyrocketed) so I respond, "puedes hablar el espanol?" (can you speak spanish) and she replied (si') so then I continue the conversation in spanish and eventually do a # close - "que me des tu numero" (basically means would you give me your number) and she goes into this whole "well i don't normally do this sort of thing, but ok" which i'm sure all you djs have gotten 100s of times. And that's that.
Another way I have used this is to find a girl I can tell is from another country, possibly in class or at work. I then listen to find out secretly where she is from. Then I go on the Internet, do a google search for tutorials on that language, learn enough to say a few cool things like, "you have beautiful eyes/hair" or something equally sappy. Remember it's ok to be sappy - you are speaking their own language and regardless of what you say, the affect will be the same proximity attraction.
Anyways, I hope this helps some of you foreign language experts out there. Habla away.
How many guys out there are interested in exotic ladies. If you live in the U.S. some of you might have a thing for spanish girls, asian girls, french girls, etc. There is a very good biological reason for this. Did you ever hear the saying mutts are the healthiest dogs. Genetic diversity is something which we will strive for to an extent in choosing a mate. This is why incest is so taboo in most civilized cultures. The lack of genetic diversity actually has an adverse affect. So where am I going with all of this? Well...
There is another thing which contradicts the above statement and that is the rule of proximity. The proximity rule basically states that we will be most attracted to those who we see frequently and close to home. How many times have you seen a so-so looking girl (6-8) at the mall or something and later, when you were at your apartment, saw the same girl. Maybe even across the hall. Did you notice your attraction level for this girl went up? This is the proximity rule in practice.
OK, so the foreign language part. If a girl from another country is visiting your country, possibly for schooling or for some other reason, you can put the two above rules into affect to create an immense amount of attraction. You already have one thing going for you, you are of a different nationality than the potential girl. She will have some attraction just because of this. But the next thing will blow her mind. Learn her language. Now, realistically you should already know her language so that you can be fluent and directly impress her, but I've been able to put this into practice simply by learning the language after seeing the girl for the first time. The idea is that you do not show your attraction until you can speak at least some of her NATIVE tongue. When you speak her language you are going to be subconsciously creating that attraction of proximity. She will associate you with every single thing she loves about her homeland. She probably misses her native country and you speaking to her in her tongue while the rest of these poor guys merely can't will score you major props.
Here is how I usually implement this tactic. This past saturday, for example, I came out of a club and saw a beautiful (8-9) girl on the street outside the club. I went up to her (she looked to be of spanish descent and I speak spanish fluently) and said "hey what's up" (in english) we started talking and I said, "so where are you from...?" (in english) and she replied "puerto rico" (my attraction level skyrocketed) so I respond, "puedes hablar el espanol?" (can you speak spanish) and she replied (si') so then I continue the conversation in spanish and eventually do a # close - "que me des tu numero" (basically means would you give me your number) and she goes into this whole "well i don't normally do this sort of thing, but ok" which i'm sure all you djs have gotten 100s of times. And that's that.
Another way I have used this is to find a girl I can tell is from another country, possibly in class or at work. I then listen to find out secretly where she is from. Then I go on the Internet, do a google search for tutorials on that language, learn enough to say a few cool things like, "you have beautiful eyes/hair" or something equally sappy. Remember it's ok to be sappy - you are speaking their own language and regardless of what you say, the affect will be the same proximity attraction.
Anyways, I hope this helps some of you foreign language experts out there. Habla away.
