I asked this girl I liked a lot a few weeks ago out, and the conversation basically went like the following:
ME: "You know, ive gotten to know you a lot this week, and we seem to both like eachother a lot. From what I can tell, you seem to be giving me signals, and quite frankly I'm interested in you. So basically what I am asking is, are you interested in me?"
HER: "Um......I don't know."
ME: "Oh, well, you seem to be giving me signals, so I was wondering why you were showing me signs that you like me."
HER "Just ignore me, Im crazy. I don't know."
Then the conversation ended. A day later, my friend told her that he had feelings for her, and shortly after she sends me an email telling me that Im not her type. This seems to go against her behavior to me, so naturally Im very confused.
The rest of the email was the typicall LJBF speech, your all aware of the "your like my older brother" comment.......
So anyways, how would you guys interpret the "I don't know answer"?
I get the impression that she liked me a lot, but she liked my friend just a tad bit more. (my friend is basically the same as me, but hes a little thinner and a bit more on the bad-boy side)
I was the one always showing her the affection. We got really close, but my freind was very shy toward her, so I guess her feelings for him didn't emerge until he showed his feelings for her.
So, my conclusion is that she liked us both, but he was a little better then me, but she didn't want to risk leaving me for him for fear that she would be rejected. So naturally, when he opened up to her, she could easily leave my fat a55 behind.
Does anybody agree that this is plausible. What the hell does "I don't know if I like you" mean? Does it mean that she DID like me but wasn't sure, or does it mean that she didn't but she was watching out for my feelings?
ME: "You know, ive gotten to know you a lot this week, and we seem to both like eachother a lot. From what I can tell, you seem to be giving me signals, and quite frankly I'm interested in you. So basically what I am asking is, are you interested in me?"
HER: "Um......I don't know."
ME: "Oh, well, you seem to be giving me signals, so I was wondering why you were showing me signs that you like me."
HER "Just ignore me, Im crazy. I don't know."
Then the conversation ended. A day later, my friend told her that he had feelings for her, and shortly after she sends me an email telling me that Im not her type. This seems to go against her behavior to me, so naturally Im very confused.
The rest of the email was the typicall LJBF speech, your all aware of the "your like my older brother" comment.......
So anyways, how would you guys interpret the "I don't know answer"?
I get the impression that she liked me a lot, but she liked my friend just a tad bit more. (my friend is basically the same as me, but hes a little thinner and a bit more on the bad-boy side)
I was the one always showing her the affection. We got really close, but my freind was very shy toward her, so I guess her feelings for him didn't emerge until he showed his feelings for her.
So, my conclusion is that she liked us both, but he was a little better then me, but she didn't want to risk leaving me for him for fear that she would be rejected. So naturally, when he opened up to her, she could easily leave my fat a55 behind.
Does anybody agree that this is plausible. What the hell does "I don't know if I like you" mean? Does it mean that she DID like me but wasn't sure, or does it mean that she didn't but she was watching out for my feelings?