Anyone know how to penetrate a korean clique?
I don't know about you guys, but here on the west coast the korean girls/guys are really cliquish...sticking together and only hanging out with each other.
I'm interested in this one girl and basically I've been throwing down the C&F and she's receptive to it:
Background: I know her friend from 2 years ago. We talk randomly when we meet. Her friend (korean) has a BF (korean).
**I plop down next to her in lecture**
me: hey I know we're only in class a few times a week but....I think it's important that you know my name.
her: oh really?
me: yeah I'm pretty important around here.
her: ok what's your name?
me: well I can't give it out for free. how about a trade?
her: haha ohhhh I see how it is. my name for yours?
me: nah...not quite enough. my name for your name and number should do it though.
her: ...haha hmmm we'll see
then I got ignored the rest of the lecture LOL
end of lecture.
me: last offer.
her: hmmm....alright
me: OH NO nope...too slow...
her: what?? wait
me: haha just kidding here (gives phone, gets number)
Alright, so my question for your DJs is.....
How do I proceed? Probably call and set up some personal date away from the group...but I actually feel a bit threatened because I don't speak their language and they always speak korean. Whenever I see them it's mostly C&F and sports talk w/the dudes. But I wanted some feed back from your guys about penetrating a foreign group with class and confidence. thanks in advance
I don't know about you guys, but here on the west coast the korean girls/guys are really cliquish...sticking together and only hanging out with each other.
I'm interested in this one girl and basically I've been throwing down the C&F and she's receptive to it:
Background: I know her friend from 2 years ago. We talk randomly when we meet. Her friend (korean) has a BF (korean).
**I plop down next to her in lecture**
me: hey I know we're only in class a few times a week but....I think it's important that you know my name.
her: oh really?
me: yeah I'm pretty important around here.
her: ok what's your name?
me: well I can't give it out for free. how about a trade?
her: haha ohhhh I see how it is. my name for yours?
me: nah...not quite enough. my name for your name and number should do it though.
her: ...haha hmmm we'll see
then I got ignored the rest of the lecture LOL
end of lecture.
me: last offer.
her: hmmm....alright
me: OH NO nope...too slow...
her: what?? wait
me: haha just kidding here (gives phone, gets number)
Alright, so my question for your DJs is.....
How do I proceed? Probably call and set up some personal date away from the group...but I actually feel a bit threatened because I don't speak their language and they always speak korean. Whenever I see them it's mostly C&F and sports talk w/the dudes. But I wanted some feed back from your guys about penetrating a foreign group with class and confidence. thanks in advance