Interceptor
Master Don Juan
I often come across many many threads here from men looking for guidance, and trying to make sense of their lives. Not sure of which way to go, I often get PMs asking me for advice on following their heart or following someone else's advice on living and becoming a Man.
It is difficult to forge a true identity.
Many of us focus so much on the external, and temporary form, that we lose sight of within. And we see it reinforced with so many people, that we think it is NORMAL.
Well, it is common that people focus on the external.
But it is by no means NORMAL.
And it is not healthy.
It IS common that most men go about their lives flailing about, with no direction, identity, or solid healthy VALUES.
Much less do most men today even recognize the VALUE of High Character.
In a society that does not realy reward high character, and with so much external reinforcement, and so MANY people Rationalizing and Justifying their low class behavior, it really is no wonder young men today have NO IDEA what to do, where to go, and just what the Hell they should be doing with their lives, and their limited time.
DOnt be one of those rationalizing, justifying ass holes. Dont be one of those no moral code, no honor, and no respect males that seem to prowl the world....
these males are uninitiated, and completely at a loss to what IS true honorable behavior from a mature, masculine man.
Think about this for a second...
you may not have a good sens of Self, or identity, or values right now.
So you come to a place like this , or other reosurces, where there are also many misguided men looking for answers.
Oftentimes, the LOUDEST voice is the one listened to...
...but that doesnt mean that the LOUDEST Voice is the one TO LISTEN TO.
It most often times is not THE CORRECT Voice TO listen to.
So, you listen to that loud voice telling you that it is 'weak' and 'femenine' and 'not Alpha' to be courteous, or have feelings, and be sensitive, comapssionate, and be an honorable man.
So you think : "Cool, Ill do that."
And then you have no happiness or true fulfillment and satisfaction.
Unless you are a cynical , narcissistic sociopath....
Be careful of what you put in your MINDS.
Dont be fooled.
Dont be tricked.
And dont be told that using your intuition and discernement are wrong
Please understand two MAJOR concepts you MUST take away from this:
The true teacher/ mentor/guide seeks to EDUCATE, NOT INDOCTRINATE.
Be wary of those who wish to SILENCE others, to not offer opposing views, and seek to DOMINATE ALL conversation in the matter.
Having EXPERIENCE in a circumstance, is NOT the SAME as HAVING EXPERTISE.
One who experiences something, is not necessarily an EXPERT on the subject matter. Use your wisdom and intuition.
You are responsible for being able to discern good advice from a good source, and bad advice from a bad source.
So as some of you may know Im a big fan of Dr. Paul Dobransky , and subscribe to his email newsletters.
It is interesting that he deals with the theme that many men face in following one's dreams, or fulfilling your father's dreams.
Many men are conflicted.
And Dr. Paul lays it out extermely well here.
Please read this:
Gentlemen,
Time to KILL!
Whoa. What’s this one going to be about?
Not spending your time on leisure.
Not just “getting motivated.”
I did some killing today.
That’s right. I admit it. I did it.
I approached three men who have not honored my identity or the value I have brought their lives, and said, “It’s dead.”
No can do.
Can’t be wasting my time.
They are very important and powerful, mind you. It was scary. But I did it anyway.
But I had to kill them… the poor relationships that is. Time to “clean house.”
It’s like the old film, Old Yeller. The dog is dying, so you have to kill it.
Maybe you have had to cut off a relationship with a woman. I teach you all about how to get out of what’s WRONG for you and into what’s RIGHT for you in terms of a woman in the Omega Male Seminar on 21CDs. Chances are at some point you will have to end a relationship in the future too.
You have to “kill it.”
But you can’t “kill things” if you fear “death.”
Fearing endings, that is.
If you learn to “kill,” you’ll start to “kill it” at your career mission, and you’ll someday “make a killing” financially as a SIDE EFFECT, not the starting goal.
It’s TIME TO KILL.
What does this statement inspire in you?
Fear?
Revulsion?
Confusion?
Energy?
Inspiration?
Before any unstable Jeffrey Dahmer types start sharpening their knives (and I’m sure there aren’t any true unstables out there), it’s symbolic.
You need to not fear this word or its companion word, DEATH, in order to be fully effective in your life.
It is difficult to forge a true identity.
Many of us focus so much on the external, and temporary form, that we lose sight of within. And we see it reinforced with so many people, that we think it is NORMAL.
Well, it is common that people focus on the external.
But it is by no means NORMAL.
And it is not healthy.
It IS common that most men go about their lives flailing about, with no direction, identity, or solid healthy VALUES.
Much less do most men today even recognize the VALUE of High Character.
In a society that does not realy reward high character, and with so much external reinforcement, and so MANY people Rationalizing and Justifying their low class behavior, it really is no wonder young men today have NO IDEA what to do, where to go, and just what the Hell they should be doing with their lives, and their limited time.
DOnt be one of those rationalizing, justifying ass holes. Dont be one of those no moral code, no honor, and no respect males that seem to prowl the world....
these males are uninitiated, and completely at a loss to what IS true honorable behavior from a mature, masculine man.
Think about this for a second...
you may not have a good sens of Self, or identity, or values right now.
So you come to a place like this , or other reosurces, where there are also many misguided men looking for answers.
Oftentimes, the LOUDEST voice is the one listened to...
...but that doesnt mean that the LOUDEST Voice is the one TO LISTEN TO.
It most often times is not THE CORRECT Voice TO listen to.
So, you listen to that loud voice telling you that it is 'weak' and 'femenine' and 'not Alpha' to be courteous, or have feelings, and be sensitive, comapssionate, and be an honorable man.
So you think : "Cool, Ill do that."
And then you have no happiness or true fulfillment and satisfaction.
Unless you are a cynical , narcissistic sociopath....
Be careful of what you put in your MINDS.
Dont be fooled.
Dont be tricked.
And dont be told that using your intuition and discernement are wrong
Please understand two MAJOR concepts you MUST take away from this:
The true teacher/ mentor/guide seeks to EDUCATE, NOT INDOCTRINATE.
Be wary of those who wish to SILENCE others, to not offer opposing views, and seek to DOMINATE ALL conversation in the matter.
Having EXPERIENCE in a circumstance, is NOT the SAME as HAVING EXPERTISE.
One who experiences something, is not necessarily an EXPERT on the subject matter. Use your wisdom and intuition.
You are responsible for being able to discern good advice from a good source, and bad advice from a bad source.
So as some of you may know Im a big fan of Dr. Paul Dobransky , and subscribe to his email newsletters.
It is interesting that he deals with the theme that many men face in following one's dreams, or fulfilling your father's dreams.
Many men are conflicted.
And Dr. Paul lays it out extermely well here.
Please read this:
Gentlemen,
Time to KILL!
Whoa. What’s this one going to be about?
Not spending your time on leisure.
Not just “getting motivated.”
I did some killing today.
That’s right. I admit it. I did it.
I approached three men who have not honored my identity or the value I have brought their lives, and said, “It’s dead.”
No can do.
Can’t be wasting my time.
They are very important and powerful, mind you. It was scary. But I did it anyway.
But I had to kill them… the poor relationships that is. Time to “clean house.”
It’s like the old film, Old Yeller. The dog is dying, so you have to kill it.
Maybe you have had to cut off a relationship with a woman. I teach you all about how to get out of what’s WRONG for you and into what’s RIGHT for you in terms of a woman in the Omega Male Seminar on 21CDs. Chances are at some point you will have to end a relationship in the future too.
You have to “kill it.”
But you can’t “kill things” if you fear “death.”
Fearing endings, that is.
If you learn to “kill,” you’ll start to “kill it” at your career mission, and you’ll someday “make a killing” financially as a SIDE EFFECT, not the starting goal.
It’s TIME TO KILL.
What does this statement inspire in you?
Fear?
Revulsion?
Confusion?
Energy?
Inspiration?
Before any unstable Jeffrey Dahmer types start sharpening their knives (and I’m sure there aren’t any true unstables out there), it’s symbolic.
You need to not fear this word or its companion word, DEATH, in order to be fully effective in your life.