thevilittletroll
Senior Don Juan
Has any girl ever said to you “aww your such a nice guy”? Let me ask you another question. How many of those girls that said that to you, have you ended up having sex with? I bet the number is probably pretty low. When a girl says that, what she’s really saying is, “He’s nice, but I don’t want to f.uck him.” Take this as an insult. There’s a part of your game that you need to work on. It took me a long time to figure this out, and with the help of one of my friends who is a natural showed me the way.
To give you a little background, I used to be the guy in the bar that was having lots of fun and surrounded by lots of friends, drinking, carrying on, and generally just having a good time. I’d make my approaches during the night with virtually no failure to being interesting, fun, flirty, and the life of the party. I’d get the girl’s phone number almost every single time, and I thought to myself I was a master. I would call up & text these girls and invite them out to whatever bar I was going to, and most of them would actually show up to hang out. So I always had an entourage of my friends and anywhere between 7-10 hot women around me at all times. I soon realized after a while, that I wasn’t having sex with any one of them, and became frustrated. My “natural” friend meets 3 of these girls for the first time, and SNL’s them that night. I decided to figure out what he did differently than I did.
I talked to the girls he hooked up with and they all told me the same thing. They thought he was an a-hole when they first met. But they still had sex with him anyway. So I asked why, they said “there was just something about him.” Well that didn’t help me enough, I needed more info. I observed my “natural” friend more closely when we were out sarging for chicks. And yes he was a huge a-hole when talking to them. He would say things like, “are you retarded?” “I bet you are a huge slut aren’t you?” “I’m no good for you, I’d just f.uck your brains out and never call you again.” As I was watching him have conversations with these girls I was shocked with the amount of success he was having. Sometimes the girls would call him an a-hole right to his face, he would respond by saying, “walk away then.” Needless to say most of the time they would stay there and continue to banter with him. Minutes later they’d be making out with him in the middle of the bar. I would watch these girls go from offended to in lust with him within about 10 minutes of talking. It sounds so counterintuitive right? What made him attractive was this, not giving a s.hit, being indifferent, not caring if the girl shot him down, confidence, knocking the pedestal down most guys put her up on, being a challenge, being the prize, and most important, not being afraid to make a move, physically escalating, and k&f-closing the girl.
I realized the reason I wasn’t getting laid is that I was being the “nice guy”. I am a genuinely a nice guy when it comes to chicks but was tired of not getting laid, so I decided to try out being a d.ick. Let me tell you I never have a girl describe me to her friends as being a “nice guy” anymore. I’m getting a lot more ass because of it. Since my friend is a natural he doesn’t realize that he’s actually doing it. His biggest flaw is that he does come across sometimes as being too much of an a-hole, and doesn’t know when to turn it off. Once I figured out where the line was, my success with women skyrocketed. I propose this, experiment with being an a-hole while talking to women. You will get a lot farther than you think. Make yourself cross barriers, push the envelope until you cross the line. Once you know where that line is, you’ll know when to dial it down. Yes you will piss off some women, but how will you ever know where the line is if you never cross over it?
To give you a little background, I used to be the guy in the bar that was having lots of fun and surrounded by lots of friends, drinking, carrying on, and generally just having a good time. I’d make my approaches during the night with virtually no failure to being interesting, fun, flirty, and the life of the party. I’d get the girl’s phone number almost every single time, and I thought to myself I was a master. I would call up & text these girls and invite them out to whatever bar I was going to, and most of them would actually show up to hang out. So I always had an entourage of my friends and anywhere between 7-10 hot women around me at all times. I soon realized after a while, that I wasn’t having sex with any one of them, and became frustrated. My “natural” friend meets 3 of these girls for the first time, and SNL’s them that night. I decided to figure out what he did differently than I did.
I talked to the girls he hooked up with and they all told me the same thing. They thought he was an a-hole when they first met. But they still had sex with him anyway. So I asked why, they said “there was just something about him.” Well that didn’t help me enough, I needed more info. I observed my “natural” friend more closely when we were out sarging for chicks. And yes he was a huge a-hole when talking to them. He would say things like, “are you retarded?” “I bet you are a huge slut aren’t you?” “I’m no good for you, I’d just f.uck your brains out and never call you again.” As I was watching him have conversations with these girls I was shocked with the amount of success he was having. Sometimes the girls would call him an a-hole right to his face, he would respond by saying, “walk away then.” Needless to say most of the time they would stay there and continue to banter with him. Minutes later they’d be making out with him in the middle of the bar. I would watch these girls go from offended to in lust with him within about 10 minutes of talking. It sounds so counterintuitive right? What made him attractive was this, not giving a s.hit, being indifferent, not caring if the girl shot him down, confidence, knocking the pedestal down most guys put her up on, being a challenge, being the prize, and most important, not being afraid to make a move, physically escalating, and k&f-closing the girl.
I realized the reason I wasn’t getting laid is that I was being the “nice guy”. I am a genuinely a nice guy when it comes to chicks but was tired of not getting laid, so I decided to try out being a d.ick. Let me tell you I never have a girl describe me to her friends as being a “nice guy” anymore. I’m getting a lot more ass because of it. Since my friend is a natural he doesn’t realize that he’s actually doing it. His biggest flaw is that he does come across sometimes as being too much of an a-hole, and doesn’t know when to turn it off. Once I figured out where the line was, my success with women skyrocketed. I propose this, experiment with being an a-hole while talking to women. You will get a lot farther than you think. Make yourself cross barriers, push the envelope until you cross the line. Once you know where that line is, you’ll know when to dial it down. Yes you will piss off some women, but how will you ever know where the line is if you never cross over it?
kidding!!
