thirtyzDude
Don Juan
a bit of my history:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1925339#post1925339
So, maybe the gods have decided to smile on me for moving on from this past experience, or maybe something clicked inside me and I'm doing things differently...I think it's a bit of both.
Anyway, I f-closed this latest girl after two dates:
1st date: teased, kino'd, etc...and determined not to supplicate. She started touching me back - IOI. At the end of the date I told her she could kiss me on the cheek.
2nd date: I really just expected to kiss her; that's all I was looking for. She was kinda cool, and a solid 8-9. Kept up the teasing and kino; we went bowling and she kept coming back to me and hugging me, sitting on my lap....all good. Then, we went back to her place and that's where it got crazy. Things began escalating faster than I expected. Side-question: should one withhold when sex is a given? Anyway, I thought the deal was dead when she asked if I was seeing anyone else. I told her nothing serious. She asked if I was getting laid. I said yes. She told me I wasn't getting laid after that, but she didn't exactly get up off me either. I asked her if she wanted me to leave; she said no. I pushed her on the couch and we started up again. She took me into the bedroom, but at the last minute said she didn't want to be another notch on my bedpost. I put my clothes back on and made like I was going to leave. She came back out; we started making out and she asked me what I wanted to do, to which I replied "something I probably shouldn't do...", then she took me back in her bedroom and I fvcked her.
The thing is, I'm wondering now if I slept with her too soon; like I wrote earlier I was kinda digging her and I could stand to see her again. She's a giver. So, the question is: how does a man of value communicate to a woman that he wants to see her again without coming off as AFC...conversely, how does that same man get the girl to keep coming back of her own accord? In other words, if I have sex after two f-ing dates, is it even possible to spark her interest so much that she pursues me? After all, that's what should happen for men who have value, right?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1925339#post1925339
So, maybe the gods have decided to smile on me for moving on from this past experience, or maybe something clicked inside me and I'm doing things differently...I think it's a bit of both.
Anyway, I f-closed this latest girl after two dates:
1st date: teased, kino'd, etc...and determined not to supplicate. She started touching me back - IOI. At the end of the date I told her she could kiss me on the cheek.
2nd date: I really just expected to kiss her; that's all I was looking for. She was kinda cool, and a solid 8-9. Kept up the teasing and kino; we went bowling and she kept coming back to me and hugging me, sitting on my lap....all good. Then, we went back to her place and that's where it got crazy. Things began escalating faster than I expected. Side-question: should one withhold when sex is a given? Anyway, I thought the deal was dead when she asked if I was seeing anyone else. I told her nothing serious. She asked if I was getting laid. I said yes. She told me I wasn't getting laid after that, but she didn't exactly get up off me either. I asked her if she wanted me to leave; she said no. I pushed her on the couch and we started up again. She took me into the bedroom, but at the last minute said she didn't want to be another notch on my bedpost. I put my clothes back on and made like I was going to leave. She came back out; we started making out and she asked me what I wanted to do, to which I replied "something I probably shouldn't do...", then she took me back in her bedroom and I fvcked her.
The thing is, I'm wondering now if I slept with her too soon; like I wrote earlier I was kinda digging her and I could stand to see her again. She's a giver. So, the question is: how does a man of value communicate to a woman that he wants to see her again without coming off as AFC...conversely, how does that same man get the girl to keep coming back of her own accord? In other words, if I have sex after two f-ing dates, is it even possible to spark her interest so much that she pursues me? After all, that's what should happen for men who have value, right?