As I have been reading these posts over the past few months I have noticed a trend in the approaches.
It seems that no matter what advice you guys tell us, it all boils down to just simply not caring whether or not you get rejected. I mean obviousely I know that you should'nt go up and use some cheesy pick-up line and expect positive results, I'm just saying that if you THINK too much in the process your setting yourself up for disaster.
Thats what I think anyways. Like in college for instance. I go to class everyday and I see a new girl EVERYTIME I step foot on that campus.
I mean theirs always the possiblity of seeing the girl again if you get a class with her or something, but for the most part their is always new opportunities.
So I'm gonna try this over the next few days and see if it helps me or hurts me. I've always had the problem of thinking too much and worrying about my self image so I've decided to put this to the test.
It seems that no matter what advice you guys tell us, it all boils down to just simply not caring whether or not you get rejected. I mean obviousely I know that you should'nt go up and use some cheesy pick-up line and expect positive results, I'm just saying that if you THINK too much in the process your setting yourself up for disaster.
Thats what I think anyways. Like in college for instance. I go to class everyday and I see a new girl EVERYTIME I step foot on that campus.
I mean theirs always the possiblity of seeing the girl again if you get a class with her or something, but for the most part their is always new opportunities.
So I'm gonna try this over the next few days and see if it helps me or hurts me. I've always had the problem of thinking too much and worrying about my self image so I've decided to put this to the test.