I have a problem. It's simple: I can't talk to girls well. I honestly don't think I look all that bad (I'm skinny and pale though). Yet most girls don't seem to be interested in me more than a friend. Maybe I present myself too inconfidently? I'm not sure, but girls don't flirt with me at all.
There's one specific girl who I'd really like to start talking to. Actually, this may be one in few girls who actually have shown interest (eye contact, nervousness around me, last year's drama between us, etc). There's a dance coming up in a few weeks, semi-formal I think, that'd I would love to ask her to dance with me. BTW not an ideal dance where you take girls TO, just want to dance with her once I'm there.
So before that, I'd like to start talking to her more. I see her in one class and quite frequently in the hallway, both when she's alone and with group. The advice "just go talk to her", while what I need to do, is too vague for me. I realize I might not get much help because it largely depends on the situation/circumstance, but I'm very uncreative at convo with girls so...maybe someone has some tips on this? (FWIW yes, I've read through most of the relevant Bible entries).
There's one specific girl who I'd really like to start talking to. Actually, this may be one in few girls who actually have shown interest (eye contact, nervousness around me, last year's drama between us, etc). There's a dance coming up in a few weeks, semi-formal I think, that'd I would love to ask her to dance with me. BTW not an ideal dance where you take girls TO, just want to dance with her once I'm there.
So before that, I'd like to start talking to her more. I see her in one class and quite frequently in the hallway, both when she's alone and with group. The advice "just go talk to her", while what I need to do, is too vague for me. I realize I might not get much help because it largely depends on the situation/circumstance, but I'm very uncreative at convo with girls so...maybe someone has some tips on this? (FWIW yes, I've read through most of the relevant Bible entries).