hey guys haven't been active for a while on here. i have been working on my game by myself but i just hit yet another snag.
Ok so i just came back from college and went back to my old job... and started gaming this girl that i knew there.I saw that she seemed to really like me or at least want to **** me. So i got her number called her up about a week later and toke her out to dinner.
So during the dinner everything was going fine and then it happened. I had this girl right where i wanted her, could have kissed her anytime i wanted to during that night but i chickened out and didn't. i texted the next day telling her basically saying hey dont make too many plans cuz we are gonna do something later. she said ok what? and i tell her i dont know yet something and she said ok then. home from school so at my parents so its difficult to brings girl back. this was the only day i had the house free.
That night at work i texted her around 6pm cuz she was off that day (this was friday night) that she should come over tonight. she says that i should have told her earlier because now she made plans. i coarsed her a bit and told her i would come get her after i get off work. so i go home to get everything ready before i go pick her up. I come home to find out my parents are having a party. So i told her what was going on and she said "am going out"
*Note* this girl is a complete idiot... i saw this during the date and more when i started to texted and saw that she could not spell for her life or talk properly for that matter. The only reason im even talking to this girl is im trying to use her to build my game for when i go back to school and also to have someone on the side. she is not dating material by my standards but she does have a slamming body.
After failed attempt I spoke to her at work and asked what she was doing she says she doesnt know yet. so i tell her you should come over. Then she says i might have to go see so and so and help my aunt do something. I'm thinking to myself you just said you didnt know what you were gonna do. A little bit more coarsen and i tell her ill come pick you up after work and she says i dont know just let me know. Now while i was talking to this girl she was holding my hand, laughing, and even when i smacked her butt she said "you can't touch that unless you can have it" with a smile. To me these are all signs that the girl likes to play games and is digging me. Got home and went out to play ball for a bit forgot to call her at 7 like i planned to so i text her around 7 45 saying "are you ready for me to come get you" she says im at my girls house. i was thinking wdf and so i got bad. so i said "ur wack lol we are not cool no more" she replies "wow ok" i reply pz out and thats it.
So yesterday at work i was on the phone and she walks in and i look up smile and say hey. She opens up her water doesnt say anything and walks by me. I did not talk to her the whole day at work. One of the few times i saw her i was talking to another co worker laughing and i see her give me this dirty look. Later on that day her and some other co workers are talking about her and some guy and a kid named john. i dont know if the other guy was me or do i care but i felt like the deliberated tried to talk about that in front of me make me upset. I think that is the case because she even told the girl not to be so loud because i could hear their whole conversation. The whole day i felt that her and her friends were talking about me.
So after i got home i decided to do something i never do in this kind of situation and call her and say whats up. So i called her and said wassup what are you doing. she says im about to eat.. i'll call you back when im done and i said ok. I knew she wouldn't call back and she didn't.
so right now im lost at what should i do. i really want to nail this girl. i dont care for her at all its more about the progress of my game i just dont seem to progress passed this point.
i know this a LONG read but i wanted you guys to get the full story. One lesson i have learned from this experience is that texting is your enemy when it comes to girls who are not your girlfriend. its much better to call or talk in person you get a totally different response. With texting girls seem to have more leeway.
Edit:tried to shorten the story a bit so i could get to the point faster
Ok so i just came back from college and went back to my old job... and started gaming this girl that i knew there.I saw that she seemed to really like me or at least want to **** me. So i got her number called her up about a week later and toke her out to dinner.
So during the dinner everything was going fine and then it happened. I had this girl right where i wanted her, could have kissed her anytime i wanted to during that night but i chickened out and didn't. i texted the next day telling her basically saying hey dont make too many plans cuz we are gonna do something later. she said ok what? and i tell her i dont know yet something and she said ok then. home from school so at my parents so its difficult to brings girl back. this was the only day i had the house free.
That night at work i texted her around 6pm cuz she was off that day (this was friday night) that she should come over tonight. she says that i should have told her earlier because now she made plans. i coarsed her a bit and told her i would come get her after i get off work. so i go home to get everything ready before i go pick her up. I come home to find out my parents are having a party. So i told her what was going on and she said "am going out"
*Note* this girl is a complete idiot... i saw this during the date and more when i started to texted and saw that she could not spell for her life or talk properly for that matter. The only reason im even talking to this girl is im trying to use her to build my game for when i go back to school and also to have someone on the side. she is not dating material by my standards but she does have a slamming body.
After failed attempt I spoke to her at work and asked what she was doing she says she doesnt know yet. so i tell her you should come over. Then she says i might have to go see so and so and help my aunt do something. I'm thinking to myself you just said you didnt know what you were gonna do. A little bit more coarsen and i tell her ill come pick you up after work and she says i dont know just let me know. Now while i was talking to this girl she was holding my hand, laughing, and even when i smacked her butt she said "you can't touch that unless you can have it" with a smile. To me these are all signs that the girl likes to play games and is digging me. Got home and went out to play ball for a bit forgot to call her at 7 like i planned to so i text her around 7 45 saying "are you ready for me to come get you" she says im at my girls house. i was thinking wdf and so i got bad. so i said "ur wack lol we are not cool no more" she replies "wow ok" i reply pz out and thats it.
So yesterday at work i was on the phone and she walks in and i look up smile and say hey. She opens up her water doesnt say anything and walks by me. I did not talk to her the whole day at work. One of the few times i saw her i was talking to another co worker laughing and i see her give me this dirty look. Later on that day her and some other co workers are talking about her and some guy and a kid named john. i dont know if the other guy was me or do i care but i felt like the deliberated tried to talk about that in front of me make me upset. I think that is the case because she even told the girl not to be so loud because i could hear their whole conversation. The whole day i felt that her and her friends were talking about me.
So after i got home i decided to do something i never do in this kind of situation and call her and say whats up. So i called her and said wassup what are you doing. she says im about to eat.. i'll call you back when im done and i said ok. I knew she wouldn't call back and she didn't.
so right now im lost at what should i do. i really want to nail this girl. i dont care for her at all its more about the progress of my game i just dont seem to progress passed this point.
i know this a LONG read but i wanted you guys to get the full story. One lesson i have learned from this experience is that texting is your enemy when it comes to girls who are not your girlfriend. its much better to call or talk in person you get a totally different response. With texting girls seem to have more leeway.
Edit:tried to shorten the story a bit so i could get to the point faster
