Judging Interest Level

[ladodger32]

I just posted about this, but I look back now and realize how incredibly stupid the post looks...anyways...lemme rephrase...there is a girl I am into who I am having trouble determining the interest level of. Is there an effective and non-lame way to ask if she is interested? What are some ways to test interest level effectively (mainly tho I want to know if there is a way to find out verbally)

 

[The Shocker]

Nike, just do it. Ask her out.

 

[ladodger32]

Iv hung out w/ her once before, and I have plans to go out with her again. My question is, when out with her or talking with her, how do I judge if im viewed as a friend or in a more romantic way?

 

[The Shocker]

more kino. Put your arm around her back. See if she stays very close to you (bumping into you) or keeps her distance. Look for the IOIs, like playing with hair, biting lip, etc.

Kino is really the answer here though.

 

[Kevin Cass]

well you shouldnt go with what she says. go with what she actually does. actions speak louder then words remember this.

 

[nicenomore]

Schocker put it right..

The best way to judge is Kino.....

Not only that she is comfortable with your touch , but she should touch you as well , like playing with your hair etc

 

[Kiko-]

IOI's, test the water.
This sounds ballsy, but tell her to close her eyes, you've got a surprise and kiss her :]

 

[nicenomore]

Not getting personal , but have you ever tried your suggestion ,kiko-???

You'd probably get a slap for that one , not to mention the possiblity of a harasment suit on an extreme case.

 

[Kiko-]

Yes, I have. Of course once I've gotten positive results, but yeah.

Be positive.




The kiss isn't meant to be french, just a peck on the lips.

 

[nicenomore]

just tried it once????
the cick must really be in you , other wise you'd never get away with it with positive results (i.e not an expression of shock on her face)...

 

[Kiko-]

No, I meant i try it once I've gotten positive results from kino.. THEN I kiss her. I didn't mean that I only got a positive result from the kiss once.

Maybe things are different in India.

 

[nicenomore]

Yeah..now thats a whole lot different. Only after getting good ersults from Kino.

Where are you from??

 

[Kiko-]

Check your PM's, discuss there rather than changing the subject of this thread.