this is a no brainer, yet many still don't have it engraved in their head. this has been said before, but im going to refresh some memories.
girls don't know what they want
they say one thing and do the other. not because they're hypocrites, but because they dont know what they want. men take words too seriously (at least afc's do) and believe everything they hear. so when they say something, dont come to conclusions just yet. check out how she's acting, but remember that sometimes there will be SOME resistance, but she will eventually give in if her IL is high enough.
believe nothing you hear, and some of what you see
the best tip that i first heard from my teacher. to break it down, everybody lies, some people even lie about things that dont need to be lied about because of their agendas to look better or make someone else come off as bad or good, depending on the situation. believe nothing you hear, and some of what you see. a pretty bad example (mind is clouded a bit) is mtv's show 'burned' where girls seduce the guy and get it all on tape in the attempts to make him look stupid. basically what i'm trying to say is that girls might just be playing along with you.
look out for the liars, i've learned it the hard way. a personal experience i had was an ex i had. the last month we were together, she would be so avoidant but tell me she still wanted to last until a marriage, and that she was just having personal problems. sometimes its true, but other times, they're trying to wait for the right moment to come out in the open and dump you. she eventually went for another man who she was seeing behind my back. these were the days when i was an afc. i don't consider myself a dj, because i know what to do now but i can't do it because of instinct. i have to think twice. but i am eager to keep improving to that point. good luck everybody.
girls don't know what they want
they say one thing and do the other. not because they're hypocrites, but because they dont know what they want. men take words too seriously (at least afc's do) and believe everything they hear. so when they say something, dont come to conclusions just yet. check out how she's acting, but remember that sometimes there will be SOME resistance, but she will eventually give in if her IL is high enough.
believe nothing you hear, and some of what you see
the best tip that i first heard from my teacher. to break it down, everybody lies, some people even lie about things that dont need to be lied about because of their agendas to look better or make someone else come off as bad or good, depending on the situation. believe nothing you hear, and some of what you see. a pretty bad example (mind is clouded a bit) is mtv's show 'burned' where girls seduce the guy and get it all on tape in the attempts to make him look stupid. basically what i'm trying to say is that girls might just be playing along with you.
look out for the liars, i've learned it the hard way. a personal experience i had was an ex i had. the last month we were together, she would be so avoidant but tell me she still wanted to last until a marriage, and that she was just having personal problems. sometimes its true, but other times, they're trying to wait for the right moment to come out in the open and dump you. she eventually went for another man who she was seeing behind my back. these were the days when i was an afc. i don't consider myself a dj, because i know what to do now but i can't do it because of instinct. i have to think twice. but i am eager to keep improving to that point. good luck everybody.