I tried making a list of her faults and I also ended up making a list of her qualities.
Since I don't know her that well yet, here's what I can come up with.
Cons
She gets drunk while being underage.
She sometimes smokes
I don't like her hair that much, has streaks
Only an 8
Almost always with her friend
Pros
18 years old
Pretty
Great body
Fun to be with
Seems to be emotionally stable
Nice to almost everyone, including me
Seems to enjoy talking to me
Doesn't mind walking with me
Has money
I know she is not perfect, nobody is but she is basically a great girl to have. And I’m sure will have a lot of fun if we hook up. What I need to do is just ask her out. I just don’t want to have the risk of her hating me, like all girls before her did. Right now we are acquaintances almost becoming friends.
I need to break it down of what would happen if I do or don’t ask her out.
1. She says yes, we go somewhere together, have sex soon after.
2. She says yes, we start dating, no sex for a while.
3. She says no, I’m still able to talk to her like nothing has changed.
4. She says no, and never wants to talk to me again.
Right now the fear of #4 is keeping me silent. If I never ask her out, it’s guaranteed that I’ll be able to talk to her everyday in class and on the way to the parking lot. But when I get in my car I’ll be cussing and getting pissed off at myself about how stupid I am. If I don't ask her out I'll NEVER have sex with her (just beating that into my brain) NEVER have sex with her. I really want #1 to happen but #4 is just too scary. I need to force my mind into not caring what she thinks. I just don’t have enough female interaction to really believe that they are not better than me.
My desire for frequent sex and a relationship is simply too strong to just move on. I would go after girls but I talk to her more than anybody else and she’s the simply the hottest girl I interact with. I haven’t had oneitis for a girl in almost four years and now that I’ve had sex, my desire for her is magnified because I have an idea of what doing her would be like.
Anyways thanks for the advice.