Hi all,
Well...after a pretty bad fling with this girl, its now over. I made mistakes, bad decisions, and acted like an AFC. I don't know what happened to me. I think it was because she was playing me. I also presume she had the guy she was dating before me on the backburner. She sent me a text before, it read:
'Hi. I've been thinking and I dont think we should go out again. In all honesty I'm really put off by a number of things so i think it's best we just leave it. No hard feelings anyway x'
I texted her back (I thought about not doing, but thought this would give the impression I was upset about it). It read:
'No its fine, to be honest, after taking a step back from it myself, the same applies to you. I presume you had that guy on the backburner as well, why would i get involved with someone like that! but yeah, theres still no hard feelings, take care of yourself x'
Do you think this was the right call. I kind of let her know that I was thinking the same thing about her, so she's not in complete control of all this, and that she should take of herself, and thus seeming like it was no big deal.
A note on the general situation, I am a bit gutted that I've lost this one. But im beginning to realise its more of an issue about what I wanted her to be, not what she actually was. She obviously wasn't right for me, I realise that, she was more trouble than it was worth. but it still doesn't stop me from feeling bad about it. I suppose thats more of an issue with myself though. I'm sure theres plenty more fish in the sea, I'm just sick of fishing, and catching duds
Well...after a pretty bad fling with this girl, its now over. I made mistakes, bad decisions, and acted like an AFC. I don't know what happened to me. I think it was because she was playing me. I also presume she had the guy she was dating before me on the backburner. She sent me a text before, it read:
'Hi. I've been thinking and I dont think we should go out again. In all honesty I'm really put off by a number of things so i think it's best we just leave it. No hard feelings anyway x'
I texted her back (I thought about not doing, but thought this would give the impression I was upset about it). It read:
'No its fine, to be honest, after taking a step back from it myself, the same applies to you. I presume you had that guy on the backburner as well, why would i get involved with someone like that! but yeah, theres still no hard feelings, take care of yourself x'
Do you think this was the right call. I kind of let her know that I was thinking the same thing about her, so she's not in complete control of all this, and that she should take of herself, and thus seeming like it was no big deal.
A note on the general situation, I am a bit gutted that I've lost this one. But im beginning to realise its more of an issue about what I wanted her to be, not what she actually was. She obviously wasn't right for me, I realise that, she was more trouble than it was worth. but it still doesn't stop me from feeling bad about it. I suppose thats more of an issue with myself though. I'm sure theres plenty more fish in the sea, I'm just sick of fishing, and catching duds