RedKnight04
Senior Don Juan
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Along my quest for donjuan'ing I've probably had more down's then up's. And just about every down I experienced I noticed I would get angry and I would feel embarresed and hurt.
Simply said, its OK to be angry. Its NOT OK to take it out on people. Its OK to be hurt just like its ok to feel happy.
You see every since we were little ones we have started seperating from our parents. Seeing the world for what it is. And In the process, got alot of "No's" and "Don'ts." Powerful angry feelings rose inside you when you were frustrated in your explorations. Probably you expressed yourself with a pissed off attitude of getting a red face and blackballing everyone.
Now the crucial part was how your parents acted to your rage. If your parents expressed their fear by becoming angry too, and acted in an THREATNING OVERPOWERING way, you became EXTREMELY frightened.
What I'm saying is your going to experience your up's and down's through your quest for success. I look at life like a crazy rollarcoaster.
So, WHY DO BE CRITICIZE OURSELVES ON EVERY SMALL THING!?
Don't let your rejections anger you into losing the BIG picture. Look at the times you did succeed with a chick. That is apart of the BIG picture.
Its OK to feel embarrassed and hurt and mostly rejected. But hey, its only natural. Happy feelings are only natural too.
But if you feel that depression or maybe anger/rejection - don't let it sway you or else you won't stand a chance of enjoying the good days.
Simply said, its OK to be angry. Its NOT OK to take it out on people. Its OK to be hurt just like its ok to feel happy.
You see every since we were little ones we have started seperating from our parents. Seeing the world for what it is. And In the process, got alot of "No's" and "Don'ts." Powerful angry feelings rose inside you when you were frustrated in your explorations. Probably you expressed yourself with a pissed off attitude of getting a red face and blackballing everyone.
Now the crucial part was how your parents acted to your rage. If your parents expressed their fear by becoming angry too, and acted in an THREATNING OVERPOWERING way, you became EXTREMELY frightened.
What I'm saying is your going to experience your up's and down's through your quest for success. I look at life like a crazy rollarcoaster.
So, WHY DO BE CRITICIZE OURSELVES ON EVERY SMALL THING!?
Don't let your rejections anger you into losing the BIG picture. Look at the times you did succeed with a chick. That is apart of the BIG picture.
Its OK to feel embarrassed and hurt and mostly rejected. But hey, its only natural. Happy feelings are only natural too.
But if you feel that depression or maybe anger/rejection - don't let it sway you or else you won't stand a chance of enjoying the good days.