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So Ive been reading extensively how women like to be dominated and have rape fantasies etc.

So in my sex life I've increasingly ramped up my aggression factor. One girl asked me to called her a slut and pee once and I was too ***** to do it. I was meek and weak.

Then as I got more experience Ive pretty much internalized the "rapey" vibes during sex.

Whenever Ive ****ed, especially currently with my LTR, I've been extra aggressive with name calling, spanking, hair pulling choking etc. I've watched rape scenes in movies and extreme domination/facial abuse tier porn as inspiration, and I try and mimic the body movement of the dudes. In the moment I have nothing but thoughts of aggression and dehumanization.

My internal dialogue is that my partner in that moment is a literal piece of meat.

I actually had a problem for years where I'd never *** in a girls mouth by *******, ever. One night I actually kept telling myself "she's a nasty dumb stupid slut and she deserves whatever comes out of your penis" and I came via ******* for the first time ever. This is someone I deeply care about and what got me off was thinking this person was filth.

There's some dualistic **** going on that weird me out. But women ****ing LOVE it. It ****s me up to think about and it makes me scared of my own Sexuality. Everything is 100% consensual and sober so Im not worried about getting #metood or anything, but I do look at myself in the mirror after some rough sex sometimes and go "what the **** did I just do?"

Its addicting and weird at the same time. Has this been the normal way to **** all along?
 

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www.fetlife.com

Make a free profile just to look at other peoples' profiles, and you will feel a lot less weird. The youngest, hottest women tend to be the most into the things you describe. Fetlife is free; the pay option lets you watch videos, but I think most people are free members.
 
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www.fetlife.com

Make a free profile just to look at other peoples' profiles, and you will feel a lot less weird. The youngest, hottest women tend to be the most into the things you describe. Fetlife is free; the pay option lets you watch videos, but I think most people are free members.
Yeah but those women have already been used by other guys. I want one that is not only a mommy girlfriend, but hasn't experienced this yet sexually and gets accustomed to only me doing it to her.
 

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An ex gf introduced me into this world, faux rape, choking etc, changed my (sexual) life.

All women I've met want to be banged hard and proper, go hard or go home, no time for pvssy sh!t.

Hard for me sometimes as I'm a sensitive emotional guy and actually prefer slow fvcking and sensing everything.

My internal monologue, like yours, sometimes makes me wanna treat them like meat, its fun, I did it to my housemate last friday, women want that I think.

Sex and sexuality is a weird complicated thing, there's a reason God (yes I'm going there) designed sex for union of man and wife, one flesh, sexual perversion is in our sinful nature as humans.

As long as nobody gets hurt it's fine. Sadly it seems you are hurting yourself though, do you always bang like you're raping a broad, or do you have vanilla sex too?
 

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All of this is normal, that is how your suppose to bang women, sure, you can go slow and gentle and make love if you want lol but women want to be fcked, it's called "smashing" OR "banging" for a reason
 

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An ex gf introduced me into this world, faux rape, choking etc, changed my (sexual) life.

All women I've met want to be banged hard and proper, go hard or go home, no time for pvssy sh!t.

Hard for me sometimes as I'm a sensitive emotional guy and actually prefer slow fvcking and sensing everything.

My internal monologue, like yours, sometimes makes me wanna treat them like meat, its fun, I did it to my housemate last friday, women want that I think.

Sex and sexuality is a weird complicated thing, there's a reason God (yes I'm going there) designed sex for union of man and wife, one flesh, sexual perversion is in our sinful nature as humans.

As long as nobody gets hurt it's fine. Sadly it seems you are hurting yourself though, do you always bang like you're raping a broad, or do you have vanilla sex too?
If you stroke too hard and fast you cant enjoy the sensation of the vaginal textures nor pay close attention to her internal configuration.
 

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If you stroke too hard and fast you cant enjoy the sensation of the vaginal textures nor pay close attention to her internal configuration.
Exactly so torn between giving her what she wants and taking what i want
 

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Exactly so torn between giving her what she wants and taking what i want
Switch it up. Ive had alot of babes complaining about porn style fvcks where the guy do what he wants without giving a fvck what she likes. I switch it up between love making and straight fvcking. Im going to figure out how to get all i can out of it. Plus my dyck is fat and im not gonna be sprinting in her puzzy without it loosening up some.
 

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Switch it up. Ive had alot of babes complaining about porn style fvcks where the guy do what he wants without giving a fvck what she likes. I switch it up between love making and straight fvcking. Im going to figure out how to get all i can out of it. Plus my dyck is fat and im not gonna be sprinting in her puzzy without it loosening up some.
Agreed, and im also packing heat which I think makes ****ing easy as you dont need to do so much, also hitting a womans cervix too much hurts them and I've realised the hoes don't complain about pain as much as the good girls
 

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Agreed, and im also packing heat which I think makes ****ing easy as you dont need to do so much, also hitting a womans cervix too much hurts them and I've realised the hoes don't complain about pain as much as the good girls
Hoes wont say nothing they act tuff like a guy. But if you keep crushing their cervix you might find your just not fvcking her anymore. Im mindful of all this. Some of them somehow like it but for most its like getting kick in the balls.
 

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Yeah and girls are all different man, some like a pounding more than others, the biggest thing for me was learning that women mostly come from cl!t stimulation not from banging. You find a girl that can come from penetration and it's like discovering diamonds, halfs your work load and just a better experience/fvck
 

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Yeah and girls are all different man, some like a pounding more than others, the biggest thing for me was learning that women mostly come from cl!t stimulation not from banging. You find a girl that can come from penetration and it's like discovering diamonds, halfs your work load and just a better experience/fvck
Right. Imagine that. And imagine knowing that ***** well enough that you can time both of your orgasm to happen at the same time.
 

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That's really living, my g
 

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50 shades of grey is one of the best selling books of all time. That should be all the evidence you need.

Women want men to dominate in bed. And when a woman truly trusts you, she will let you do almost anything to her.
 

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Fuhk a girl without a cervix, its the best thing ever. Its about another inch you can deliver and no complaining from them.
 

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Does anyone else get nervous about this type of stuff given the current political climate? Maybe i'm just a pussbag, but i think the rough stuff should be ramped up over a few sessions. Being forward and going after what you want, but going too rough too quickly. Going overboard with it too quickly with a girl you just met... all it takes is one psycho to cry rape and your life as a man is ruined, if not horribly impacted. Some girls might love it in the moment, but regret it after and leave you in a world of sh*t
 

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Does anyone else get nervous about this type of stuff given the current political climate? Maybe i'm just a pussbag, but i think the rough stuff should be ramped up over a few sessions. Being forward and going after what you want, but going too rough too quickly. Going overboard with it too quickly with a girl you just met... all it takes is one psycho to cry rape and your life as a man is ruined, if not horribly impacted. Some girls might love it in the moment, but regret it after and leave you in a world of sh*t
Your not alone. They can even ASK for it and years later say you abused them. So proceed with caution.
 
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