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Is this AFC?

AverageFC

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So I'm happy with my life right now. Based on reading the Bible and this forums, I've improved my mental attitude, and while I thought I was walking properly beforehand, I realized I wasnt and corrected that immediately. Just about every area of my life (college, extracurricular, etc) is great.

Provided all this, is it still AFC to want a GF/relationship?
 

diablo

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Why would it be? It's human nature to want something desirable - the only way it could turn into something considered "AFC" is by certain actions you take in the belief that it will result in said "gf/relationship".
 

AverageFC

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Well if wanting a relationship meant producing some sort of negative energy, I didnt want to reflect that in my life.
 

Kaine

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You're feeling is natural. It's human nature to desire companionship

A problem only occurs when this desire cause's an imbalance in your life. Just don't make it a primary focal point.

If you put too much focus on it, you will likely to act needy and desperate. Self sabotage at it's very best.

Keep learning but don't fret it.

Kaine
 

thefonz

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godam i am so hot.....just needed to get that off my chest
 

Lifeforce

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Focus more on what you want and less about what it DJ/AFC.
 
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