I gave Tinder a shot. It worked pretty well. Got a girls number fairly quickly and decided to meet up with her for some dinner/drinks/pool. I met up with her this past Friday around 8:30 or so. Over dinner the conversation flowed pretty well. Hobbies, family, job, blah blah. Eye contact was there, no awkward silences, matched body language. Played pool where I initiated a little flirting. High fives, touched her lower back, light arm contact. However, the majority of the contact was initiated by me. Around midnight she asked if I wanna get outta there. I thought she wanted to dip back to her place or whatever. We go outside, make idle chit chat walking close by one another. Then we decide to part ways. She reaches out her arms and gives me a prolonged hug and rubs my back a few times (what the **** is that about?). About thirty minutes later I text her, "I had a great time tonight. I'm glad I met you! " She instantly replies "Me too have a good night!!" And I say "You too!"
So Saturday goes by and I don't text or call her. Sunday comes and around 5pm I give her a call. No answer so I leave a voicemail. It was something like "Hey, this is so and so. I had a great time the other night and wanted to see what your up to this. See if you wanna chill. Give me a call back."
Today is Monday. Still no call back or text. There's no ****ing way the girl is that busy to not have responded by now. I'm pretty sure the answer is clear that the chick wasn't all that into me after all. Should I let it go and say next or is there something I can say to re-spark the interest in this girl. I've been avoiding texting her so I don't come off as needy or whatever ****. But maybe a text could be beneficial? What the **** do I know. That's what I'm coming to you guys for.
So Saturday goes by and I don't text or call her. Sunday comes and around 5pm I give her a call. No answer so I leave a voicemail. It was something like "Hey, this is so and so. I had a great time the other night and wanted to see what your up to this. See if you wanna chill. Give me a call back."
Today is Monday. Still no call back or text. There's no ****ing way the girl is that busy to not have responded by now. I'm pretty sure the answer is clear that the chick wasn't all that into me after all. Should I let it go and say next or is there something I can say to re-spark the interest in this girl. I've been avoiding texting her so I don't come off as needy or whatever ****. But maybe a text could be beneficial? What the **** do I know. That's what I'm coming to you guys for.