thought I've already graduated on this site...guess i need insights again...
For a little background:
I've had my ankle fractured for two weeks now...
This girl and me had known each other for a month now.
This girl really has a lot of suitors around her. But I really don't care.
When I fractured my ankle back then, it so happens that we have a plan to date. I continued the date anyway even when I'm limp. I didn't show her I was hurt though my foot was swollen bigtime. Heavy kino. Check. Rapport. Check. Attraction. Check. She had fun so she says.
I guess that amazed her caused from that day on, she has been treating me differently. And that amazes me too, cause as far as I know, she's liking a guy that has been my rival eversince. That's different story though.
I always get her laughing on the phone. I always make her happy when she's sad (family problems). Yeah, I guess she's happy with me.
I really can't do anything and she's working. But we really talk alot on the phone whenver she has free time..When I mean alot, its alot.
Maybe I'm fvck up or something that I wanna add drama to spice things up.
One of the suitors he used to like was brought up. I forgot how. She used to talk about back then, but I would avoid the topic everytime. I really know she likes him back then, but its just that one day. Things have changed. She decided to go out with me and its been all me eversince. here's the sample SMS convo:
me: know what? i'm really wondering why you've changed suddenly. It's just that you two always seem to like each other. I'm wondering what happened, really.
her: I myself don't know either.
we've talk about the guy. how he gave her flowers, send her i love you messages everyday and everything.
i then talked about how he did it with another girl too. Which happens to like me alot. I rejected the girl and the girl got together with that guy that's now courting her.
me: you know what? i'm wondering if you've just rebounded me or something coz i'd really hate that.
her: don't compare me to her. what we have is different.
me: yah i know. But im having trouble trusting people.
me: (continue to challenge her) whatever! hope so.
her: you're irritating! I can't believe it you're not believing me
(i really cant remember what was the exact words being said here.)
me: its fine! i really believe i've won you...
her: you know what? it's just really annoying that two people are happily together but one of them is not believing the other.
me: its just that i don't wanna be a used to fill someone's place or be a rebound material. i'd really hate that.
her: im not using you to fill somone's place!
me: yah...hope so.. you know she also told me that I'm all she wants..(the girl that ive rejected and talked about earlier) she even used to cry. But she got toghether with mark(the other guy)
arrghhh...the convo went like that...after that.. she didn't call me and didn't text me up to now.
the question is? did i chumped out?if so?how do i work around it?
any advices?this is really bugging me...
thanks in advance
For a little background:
I've had my ankle fractured for two weeks now...
This girl and me had known each other for a month now.
This girl really has a lot of suitors around her. But I really don't care.
When I fractured my ankle back then, it so happens that we have a plan to date. I continued the date anyway even when I'm limp. I didn't show her I was hurt though my foot was swollen bigtime. Heavy kino. Check. Rapport. Check. Attraction. Check. She had fun so she says.
I guess that amazed her caused from that day on, she has been treating me differently. And that amazes me too, cause as far as I know, she's liking a guy that has been my rival eversince. That's different story though.
I always get her laughing on the phone. I always make her happy when she's sad (family problems). Yeah, I guess she's happy with me.
I really can't do anything and she's working. But we really talk alot on the phone whenver she has free time..When I mean alot, its alot.
Maybe I'm fvck up or something that I wanna add drama to spice things up.
One of the suitors he used to like was brought up. I forgot how. She used to talk about back then, but I would avoid the topic everytime. I really know she likes him back then, but its just that one day. Things have changed. She decided to go out with me and its been all me eversince. here's the sample SMS convo:
me: know what? i'm really wondering why you've changed suddenly. It's just that you two always seem to like each other. I'm wondering what happened, really.
her: I myself don't know either.
we've talk about the guy. how he gave her flowers, send her i love you messages everyday and everything.
i then talked about how he did it with another girl too. Which happens to like me alot. I rejected the girl and the girl got together with that guy that's now courting her.
me: you know what? i'm wondering if you've just rebounded me or something coz i'd really hate that.
her: don't compare me to her. what we have is different.
me: yah i know. But im having trouble trusting people.
me: (continue to challenge her) whatever! hope so.
her: you're irritating! I can't believe it you're not believing me
(i really cant remember what was the exact words being said here.)
me: its fine! i really believe i've won you...
her: you know what? it's just really annoying that two people are happily together but one of them is not believing the other.
me: its just that i don't wanna be a used to fill someone's place or be a rebound material. i'd really hate that.
her: im not using you to fill somone's place!
me: yah...hope so.. you know she also told me that I'm all she wants..(the girl that ive rejected and talked about earlier) she even used to cry. But she got toghether with mark(the other guy)
arrghhh...the convo went like that...after that.. she didn't call me and didn't text me up to now.
the question is? did i chumped out?if so?how do i work around it?
any advices?this is really bugging me...
thanks in advance
