Dear MatureDJ,
Your presumably humble background has made you what you are and the values you hold are those that made your Nation great,I respect you......As for Falcon and his cutting remarks,if the boats carrying all his goodies stopped coming from Europe and Japan,I know who I would back in the survival Stakes.......Having said that it must be said that you will be restricted in the range of Ladies you may chose from,maybe only 1% of the ladies who frequent Pubs and bars,but maybe 20% of the general population...That's still a swag of girls,just don't waste your time on clubs and bars....Razor sharp has a very wise and helpful contribution,read it carefully....As time passes by,if you stick at it you will become a wealthy Man,and Women will gravitate towards the inevitable signs of your possessions....Example:About ten years ago I built an enormous 3 and a half storey mansion by a Lake in my Home Town,because of constant theft I virtually lived there,as I plugged away at finishing it....To cut a long story short,The place backing onto a well frequented walk round the waters edge,many people wondered through the place and the Women in particular were impressed not just with this Home which was lovely,but surprisingly with me,I probably could have picked up a Woman a week.....One beautiful girl really stood out,she was a young tourist,a classic English Rose,about 26.I gave her a conducted tour and then as she was leaving We stood by a staircase looking at the Lake and she stared up at me and said "You know you have the most beautiful blue eyes,but I suppose many Women have told you that before?""Thanks", I replied,"Yours are rather nice too",she reached for my hand and said"You know I would give anything,anything to live in a house like this"...Sadly that was as far as it went,but if you are in a similar situation,by following the advice on this forum,you will enjoy maybe 3 or 4 months of bliss.