Now I see all the facts laid out before my eyes. My biggest problem lies in my extreme introvertedness. What made the situation even worse was not being aware of this biologically based trait, all these past years. Therefore, when I tried to extrovert myself, it would just be awkward, to me and the audience, because I was far from congruent with it.
Nature is more powerful than we believe. But if there is no way out of this what can I do? Can will power alone make me who I want to be, the character who is able to express himself and his true emotions at any given moment? But some will argue that the introvert is expressing his true emotions by preferring solitude and avoidance of conversation, while it is the overly obnoxious extrovert is putting on a facade, of himself, by being 'lively, and faking their happiness and curiosity only because of their inner loneliness which they can only regulate by being social. I say this is gibberish. This is a generalization of those folks who TRY to extrovert to hard to a certain extent, where it's got everyone else thinking ...."Someone shut this retard up…he is trying waaaay tooo fycking hard."
But it not the extrovert or introvert that controls the world. It is those who know how to balance their temperaments. Extroverts, try reading a fycking book sometime. Hey you introvert, get the hell out of the library and go have that conversation with your brother or sister that you never had.
The facts are appearing before my eyes. An extreme introvert is not going to be able to live a happy life, because in the real world, they will be viewed as parasites that can easily be manipulated or ignored. In a family, a dominant extroverted father is necessary, who can take control of his kids and wife, and be able to understand one another’s emotion’s through conversation.
The introvert has difficulty engaging in small talk with people, which causes extreme difficulty trying to get a close relationship to someone. Many people do not understand that the introvert loses energy when trying to speak to people, so they just assume he just a selfish prick and/or does not care about anyone/anything.
We are not animals. Conversational skills are a necessity for humans trying to survive in this world run by extroverts. But introverts have an advantage. They have an ability that allows them to think deeply like no other. This sounds like gibberish, but introverts get a kick out of doing nothing, and just letting their minds wander wherever it takes them. And it’s been told in history that some of the greatest scientific laws where devised by those creepy introverts. Hmm… why don’t we forget about stop adding additional numbers to Pie, and learn to be better conversationalists.
This is a rant, to pass some time. And I want comments of those who are of either spectrum of the introvert/extrovert scale of anything that comes to mind.
I think what I’m trying to get at is, that we must not ignore our given genetic nature. The environment alone did not make us who we are. However, everyone can learn how to do something the right way. An improvement can be made, but not a vast improvement that will completely erase your true self…
I plan to investigate the topic in a much more scientific method in the future backed upon research.
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Nature is more powerful than we believe. But if there is no way out of this what can I do? Can will power alone make me who I want to be, the character who is able to express himself and his true emotions at any given moment? But some will argue that the introvert is expressing his true emotions by preferring solitude and avoidance of conversation, while it is the overly obnoxious extrovert is putting on a facade, of himself, by being 'lively, and faking their happiness and curiosity only because of their inner loneliness which they can only regulate by being social. I say this is gibberish. This is a generalization of those folks who TRY to extrovert to hard to a certain extent, where it's got everyone else thinking ...."Someone shut this retard up…he is trying waaaay tooo fycking hard."
But it not the extrovert or introvert that controls the world. It is those who know how to balance their temperaments. Extroverts, try reading a fycking book sometime. Hey you introvert, get the hell out of the library and go have that conversation with your brother or sister that you never had.
The facts are appearing before my eyes. An extreme introvert is not going to be able to live a happy life, because in the real world, they will be viewed as parasites that can easily be manipulated or ignored. In a family, a dominant extroverted father is necessary, who can take control of his kids and wife, and be able to understand one another’s emotion’s through conversation.
The introvert has difficulty engaging in small talk with people, which causes extreme difficulty trying to get a close relationship to someone. Many people do not understand that the introvert loses energy when trying to speak to people, so they just assume he just a selfish prick and/or does not care about anyone/anything.
We are not animals. Conversational skills are a necessity for humans trying to survive in this world run by extroverts. But introverts have an advantage. They have an ability that allows them to think deeply like no other. This sounds like gibberish, but introverts get a kick out of doing nothing, and just letting their minds wander wherever it takes them. And it’s been told in history that some of the greatest scientific laws where devised by those creepy introverts. Hmm… why don’t we forget about stop adding additional numbers to Pie, and learn to be better conversationalists.
This is a rant, to pass some time. And I want comments of those who are of either spectrum of the introvert/extrovert scale of anything that comes to mind.
I think what I’m trying to get at is, that we must not ignore our given genetic nature. The environment alone did not make us who we are. However, everyone can learn how to do something the right way. An improvement can be made, but not a vast improvement that will completely erase your true self…
I plan to investigate the topic in a much more scientific method in the future backed upon research.
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