OK the only reason to use an IM is when a chic is reluctant to hand out her phone number from a email enticement. Some dames play hard to get, so go for the less hostile form of communication and get their IM name.
IM's are best AFTER YOU ALREADY MET HER---FOR future booty calls.
So when you do IM her, you wanna follow the basics at first.
1) FLUFF STUFF-this is where you introduce yourself (cause she may not recognize your user name) HI, how are you, where do u reside, how old are you again, do u own a vibrator, is your web cam on, etc)
2) TEASE N PLEASE-play paticular attention to her responses, try not to start the conversation off too aggressive. IM's & chats that take on a sexual charge too early repel most women. Dont beg for her digits right away, just poke ever so slight fun of her answers (flirt BEFORE you squirt). You can even incorporate something from her profile to establish familiarity (anchor) to get the ball rolling.
3) EXTRACTION-after you exchanged some playful banter, hint at taking this virtual 2 dimensional flirting to something more real.......this is where you get her digits. The time frame should be about 5-10 minutes, guage it accordingly with each female. Ask too soon and you may encounter resistance, too long and she may have to suddenly leave, the key is how your preface banter was perceived. Women can sense a hidden agenda a mile a way. Transition smooth to get in her groove.
4) THE PHONE CALL-well this is a whole other topic of it's own, but the purpose of the call is to follow through with hint of a meeting. Incorporate something silly from the IM chat you just had as your opener and suggest meeting for drinks, etc. No time frame here fellas......the time interval is very short from the extraction to executing the call. No need to wait a few hours/days.
IM's are best AFTER YOU ALREADY MET HER---FOR future booty calls.
So when you do IM her, you wanna follow the basics at first.
1) FLUFF STUFF-this is where you introduce yourself (cause she may not recognize your user name) HI, how are you, where do u reside, how old are you again, do u own a vibrator, is your web cam on, etc)
2) TEASE N PLEASE-play paticular attention to her responses, try not to start the conversation off too aggressive. IM's & chats that take on a sexual charge too early repel most women. Dont beg for her digits right away, just poke ever so slight fun of her answers (flirt BEFORE you squirt). You can even incorporate something from her profile to establish familiarity (anchor) to get the ball rolling.
3) EXTRACTION-after you exchanged some playful banter, hint at taking this virtual 2 dimensional flirting to something more real.......this is where you get her digits. The time frame should be about 5-10 minutes, guage it accordingly with each female. Ask too soon and you may encounter resistance, too long and she may have to suddenly leave, the key is how your preface banter was perceived. Women can sense a hidden agenda a mile a way. Transition smooth to get in her groove.
4) THE PHONE CALL-well this is a whole other topic of it's own, but the purpose of the call is to follow through with hint of a meeting. Incorporate something silly from the IM chat you just had as your opener and suggest meeting for drinks, etc. No time frame here fellas......the time interval is very short from the extraction to executing the call. No need to wait a few hours/days.
