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Where I work out this chick uses the same kind of squat stuff I do. She is about 22, blonde and she has a great figure. Well, not my type but she has the bionic a$$, ie enormous glutes, tiny waist, thin other than this massive a$$. Basically by modern standards she’s hot but I’m old school and I don’t like this herd animal blown up look.

She has all the artifacts of the hot girl influencer - leggings so tight you can see her labia, full makeup and hair, designer brands, cap headphones etc.

Naturally I’ve not given her the satisfaction of the stare but all the gym bros are drooling.
Thing is, she has like a camera stand and films herself in various positions doing squats etc.

I am guessing this is for only fans.

I don’t see why my gym should be used for soft core pornography and I kind of dislike this woman on principle so I considered making a complaint but then I thought perhaps I’d be a bit small minded.

For what possibly reason other than selling her a$$ online should someone want to set up a phone stand and start filming themselves?
should we allow these ho’s to use public gyms to sell their prostitution?
 

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should we allow these ho’s to use public gyms to sell their prostitution?
We actually should have sex-segregated gyms, I believe.
 

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They're simply narcissists who rely on simp validation to justify their hollow existence. Use every possible ounce of self-control to completely ignore them. Don't even look in their direction.
 

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For what possibly reason other than selling her a$$ online should someone want to set up a phone stand and start filming themselves?
should we allow these ho’s to use public gyms to sell their prostitution?
Christ bro who hurt you?

This actually bothers you THAT much? Just let the girl workout.

If it does, focus more on your workout or, if it becomes SO unbelievably unbearable to be around some girl working out (which by the way, the gym is filled with girls working out, pick your poison), move to a different part of the gym, or a different gym or go at a different time.

Some of you guys need more than SoSuave yikes
 

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Lmao I'm not even being a feminist. You're actually freaking out and posting about a girl recording herself at the gym wow
 

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I know the types and I like the look but once the tripod comes out its an instant turn off for me

You can practically guarantee they are the types of women lambasting men online for trying to talk to them in person whilst simultaneously dying for male attention online

It a disturbing mindset

These girls are usually like play dolls they are lovely to look at , and some people get to play with them but eventually everyone gets bored because there is literally nothing more too them

There's only been 1 gym girl ive spoken to this year that's been a genuine sweetheart and I haven't seen her since which kills me

But the rest have all had serious attitude problems
 

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Christ bro who hurt you?

This actually bothers you THAT much? Just let the girl workout.

If it does, focus more on your workout or, if it becomes SO unbelievably unbearable to be around some girl working out (which by the way, the gym is filled with girls working out, pick your poison), move to a different part of the gym, or a different gym or go at a different time.

Some of you guys need more than SoSuave yikes
Allowing this activity is part of the problem. Flexpert laid it out perfectly. This is unacceptable behavior. Fruitbat is observant and has spent an appropriate amount of time critically thinking about the problem because it is a problem. He is willing to put in the time to help facilitate change. To try and reverse the subversion. That's an honorable pursuit and should not be put down.
 

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Allowing this activity is part of the problem. Flexpert laid it out perfectly. This is unacceptable behavior. Fruitbat is observant and has spent an appropriate amount of time critically thinking about the problem because it is a problem. He is willing to put in the time to help facilitate change. To try and reverse the subversion. That's an honorable pursuit and should not be put down.
Not to go too much off topic but this is related to a larger trend I'm noticing. People increasingly maintain this libertarian mindset of "As long as they're not harming anyone, let people do what they want!" "Why do you care, it doesn't effect you" etc. I used to agree with this but I've done a complete 180.

I think it's fair to say people are too shvt brained to be left to their own devices. In the absense of religion, moral philosophy, family values, etc, people seem prone to degeneracy. Everything you do affects others, whether it's directly or indirectly. Even degenerate things someone does in the privacy of their own home affects broader society because inevitably they will infect others with their nihilistic, hedonistic attitudes and poor moral character. As a more concrete example, you should ruthlessly shame people for liking hentai, as hentai surely increases the prevelance of pedophilia which in turn may increase the chances of a child getting molested.

We have completely removed shaming and ridicule from our culture, and we think this is a good thing but it's not. These things matter. The government should never regulate our values, so we have to ourselves through shaming bad ideas and behaviors. Slut shaming has it's place too. I really think the worst punishment men can inflict on women is ignoring them (especially if you're a desirable man).

As Aristotle said: "Tolerance and apathy are the last virtues of a dying society."
 
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Allowing this activity is part of the problem. Flexpert laid it out perfectly. This is unacceptable behavior. Fruitbat is observant and has spent an appropriate amount of time critically thinking about the problem because it is a problem. He is willing to put in the time to help facilitate change. To try and reverse the subversion. That's an honorable pursuit and should not be put down.
Bruh y'all are seriously cringe af ‍♀ there's guys recording themselves and taking their shirts off and nobody cares lmao.
 

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Its not a big deal, until you catch your teenage daughter picking up that behavior out of the blue. A friend of mine is experiencing this with his 18 y/o daughter right now and depressed af.

Seems that after she got her first “tiny” tattoo, under his supervision, her behavior started going down a slippery slope really fast.

He’s 38 and recently lost his job, I’m guessing that’s probably making it worse for him.
 
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Its not a big deal, until you catch your teenage daughter picking up that behavior out of the blue. A friend of mine is experiencing this with his 18 y/o daughter right now and depressed af.

Seems that after she got her first “tiny” tattoo, under his supervision, her behavior started going down a slippery slope really fast.

He’s 38 and recently lost his job, I’m guessing that’s probably making it worse for him.
God forbid she starts liking men and having sex tf
 

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I have seen 8+ looks range Instagram/OnlyFans type thots at my gym too. They show up at random times. Often off peak times.
 

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I really think the worst punishment men can inflict on women is ignoring them (especially if you're a desirable man).
Doesn't this literally contradict everything you just said? Ignore her and leave her be...

Did you guys even READ "The Book of Pook"? How did you even find this site.



It's mind blowing how much game and social skills many of you lack holy sh*t. You rather make a post about a girl working out at the gym than actually approach the girl lmao.

Where I work out this chick uses the same kind of squat stuff I do.
When's the last time you've approached a girl? Cuz if you think the gym girl is your problem and not your own game, no Don Juan nor Pook can save you.

Christ guys it sounds like none of you would actually approach her to work out with her and learn about her sheesh. I hope you guys at least make male friends that aren't on here god
 

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Doesn't this literally contradict everything you just said? Ignore her and leave her be...

Did you guys even READ "The Book of Pook"? How did you even find this site.



It's mind blowing how much game and social skills many of you lack holy sh*t. You rather make a post about a girl working out at the gym than actually approach the girl lmao.
No, most people would passively ignore as a way to "tolerate" it and not look "creepy". I'm talking about actively ignoring her as much as you possibly can so she doesn't get her narcissistic supply.

This has nothing to do with social skills as it does with allowing digusting behavior from narcissists.

Are you seriously implying a gym ***** is a viable LTR candidate? That book is about relationship vetting.
 

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If a girl filming herself at the gym is creepy, what's a forum with a bunch of dudes talking about her? Or this site, at that point.

if you think her recording herself is creepy, imagine what she'd think about this circlejerk lmao


I need to get off this. I seriously can not be associated with some of this afc mentality.
No one here tries to talk to girls anymore, all they do is whine
 
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