Sociopath31
Master Don Juan
I was listening to loveline, and learned an important lesson from Adam Corolla which struck a bell in my head. In between the ranting and flatulating, he says some brilliant things.
He told a story of how he was in a stand-up benefit years earlier. A guy was talking to him, said a comedian named Andy Kimler does a bit called the "State of the Union" in which he bashes Adam Corolla pretty hard every year. Adam, without thinking, replied,
"Who's Andy Kimler?"
In retrospect, he realized this was the best thing he could have said, because there is nothing better than a guy who has it in for you, and you don't even know the guy. That's when you know you've hit it big.
Well, I applied this to what I know about social interactions, and it turns out to be true. Your confidence is defined in the subliminal mind as semi-emotionless, unangerable, and able to handle any situation.
If there is a problem, and people see you not worrying, they are intrigued. If a girl rejects or dumps you, and you don't care, it raises their interest by 5000%. If a guy insults you, who cares? You are better than him.
And that's the beauty of indifference. Nothing rattles you. You are in control.
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"That girl looks so good... NEXT!"
~Gangstarr
He told a story of how he was in a stand-up benefit years earlier. A guy was talking to him, said a comedian named Andy Kimler does a bit called the "State of the Union" in which he bashes Adam Corolla pretty hard every year. Adam, without thinking, replied,
"Who's Andy Kimler?"
In retrospect, he realized this was the best thing he could have said, because there is nothing better than a guy who has it in for you, and you don't even know the guy. That's when you know you've hit it big.
Well, I applied this to what I know about social interactions, and it turns out to be true. Your confidence is defined in the subliminal mind as semi-emotionless, unangerable, and able to handle any situation.
If there is a problem, and people see you not worrying, they are intrigued. If a girl rejects or dumps you, and you don't care, it raises their interest by 5000%. If a guy insults you, who cares? You are better than him.
And that's the beauty of indifference. Nothing rattles you. You are in control.
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"That girl looks so good... NEXT!"
~Gangstarr