I've stated some of this before, but I'm just going to post this like nobody knows:
I'm a single sophomore at a small private college of roughly 2000 people. In all likelihood, I have met probably every girl on campus, at least twice. Odds are, if it is an attractive girl, she is Greek. On this small campus, women who are greek(attractive women) don't date guys who aren't greek, because like all women they are shallow b1tches.
1 year ago I was given bids to 2 fraternities. I have always been interested in Greek life. 1 of the fraternities I really didn't know anybody in, and was given a bid because I was a legacy. The other fraternity I knew people in, had been hanging out there, and felt I "earned" my way in, so of course I wanted to pledge there. Unfortunately, I couldn't pledge because the Administration was fixing some grades of mine, took their fukking time, and by the time they did it, it was too late to pledge. No problem, the fraternity prez told me, your bid is good for a year and a half. Tragedy came my way again when last semester, my GPA wasn't high enough to pledge, so knowing my bid was still active, I was cool.
Now this semester comes around. The fraternity had gotten into some trouble over alcohol. The administration wouldn't let them do anything until about a week or 2 ago. By anything, no parties, no rush events, no pledging, etc. I was still fine knowing my bid was active. Tonight was the bid dinner, but I wasn't there for some reason, which confused me considering I know every guy in the house fairly well. I went to go talk to the current president, who I know, but he was on the phone with his gf. While waiting for him, one of the guys in the house said I had to leave because now that pledging is about to start, people not affiliated with the house can't be there.
So I sent my friend the president an e-mail about the situation.
He hasn't responded yet and it seems to be pretty bleak.
This is going to ruin my entire college experience. Being Greek where I am adds to your social status. Additionally, all of my good friends are Greek. Now it seems, I have to question who my friends are. Finally, I don't have any close female friends. I have female acquaintances, but I dont think they even want to be my acquaitances.
What am I supposed to do?
I'm a single sophomore at a small private college of roughly 2000 people. In all likelihood, I have met probably every girl on campus, at least twice. Odds are, if it is an attractive girl, she is Greek. On this small campus, women who are greek(attractive women) don't date guys who aren't greek, because like all women they are shallow b1tches.
1 year ago I was given bids to 2 fraternities. I have always been interested in Greek life. 1 of the fraternities I really didn't know anybody in, and was given a bid because I was a legacy. The other fraternity I knew people in, had been hanging out there, and felt I "earned" my way in, so of course I wanted to pledge there. Unfortunately, I couldn't pledge because the Administration was fixing some grades of mine, took their fukking time, and by the time they did it, it was too late to pledge. No problem, the fraternity prez told me, your bid is good for a year and a half. Tragedy came my way again when last semester, my GPA wasn't high enough to pledge, so knowing my bid was still active, I was cool.
Now this semester comes around. The fraternity had gotten into some trouble over alcohol. The administration wouldn't let them do anything until about a week or 2 ago. By anything, no parties, no rush events, no pledging, etc. I was still fine knowing my bid was active. Tonight was the bid dinner, but I wasn't there for some reason, which confused me considering I know every guy in the house fairly well. I went to go talk to the current president, who I know, but he was on the phone with his gf. While waiting for him, one of the guys in the house said I had to leave because now that pledging is about to start, people not affiliated with the house can't be there.
So I sent my friend the president an e-mail about the situation.
He hasn't responded yet and it seems to be pretty bleak.
This is going to ruin my entire college experience. Being Greek where I am adds to your social status. Additionally, all of my good friends are Greek. Now it seems, I have to question who my friends are. Finally, I don't have any close female friends. I have female acquaintances, but I dont think they even want to be my acquaitances.
What am I supposed to do?